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ok, me and my best guy friend figured out that we like eachother. and so he asked me out, and it didnt last too long cause it got weird. and so now we still like eachother but latley he has gotten all snippy and mean when we are around other people, but when he is just with me he is a sweetheart. i am soooo confused and i dont know what to do. should i talk to him or just roll with it?
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i think you should talk to him about your feelings and his feelings.
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Talk to him, obviously. First of all, he's a boy; spell it out. Secondly, he's probably not a mind reader. So you need to tell him. Don't play games with him.
♥ Melissa
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i would give him the cold shoulder for a little while.
when he askes whats up [showing he cares and is taking interest] tell him he needs to straighten up his act. he's being a jerk! if he cares, he will change for youu.♥
hope this helps! :)
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In this situation, I'd say the guy was probably feeling pretty defensive of your previous relationship so he is starting to put his guard up when there are other people around.
If you don't think his behavior is disruptive, you should probably wait to see if it passes. If it is disruptive or doesn't stop, go have a little chat with him.
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O wow! This happend to me also. Me and my best guy friend that I told everything to, ended up dating. It was cool at first, but then it got all weird. So this I can really answer you. Dont let him get to you. You two are not together no more, so he really has nothing he can do about you flirting or whatever with other guys. But do whatever your heart tells you to do. I really enjoyed answering you this. Good Luck!
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he's most likely not noticed it. get him alone and tell him. he shouldn't get angry, if he does, make tactile contact(ie: put your hand on his, rub his arm slowly) that should shut down all resistance.
-gunner
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I think you should definitely talk to him about why hes acting that way.
Just because you didn't work out as a couple is no reason you can't still be friends. Since he does treat you OK when you are alone, I see no reason why he should be rude in a crowd.
Tell him hes confusing you and you want some answers. I don't think its to much to ask. :)
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