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birthday surprise
Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?
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well i wouldnt go TOO expensive (u shouldnt use ALL ur money on her) but she'll like it if u do get her expensive gifts. i dont know if she'll get tired of em after a while it sorta depends on the girl.
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If you MEANT what you gave her, and it MEANT something to you, then expensive isn't bad. Now if you're doing expensive just to impress her, or show people that you have money, then it's bad. But if you meant what you got her, then it's okay! It shouldn't matter if it was expensive or not.
♥ Melissa
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Since you bought her things that she wanted... it's a good thing... but prices shouldn't really matter... it's the thought that counts... my bf does the same thing.. and spends a LOT of money on my bday presents... i do feel guilty that he spends so much on me... but i know he does so because he loves me and wants me to be happy...
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well, expensive is ok if this is a serious relationship, but not in excess. and by expensive i hope you dont mean you went out and bought her real diomond jewlery or something like that. if this has only been going on for four months, then you want to get her something personal that will show you care but not set you back more that $50(unless its something super special to her). just use some judgememt: how long do you think this relationship will last? is it worth setting you back ____ amount of money? only you can answer these questions, so good luck! hope this helped, but sorry if it didnt.
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No of course not! I think it shows how much you care for her. And if you can show that by expensive gifts, that is totally cool! You must be a real sweetheart to do that for your girlfriend! Hopefully she likes them!
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well, she should like them alot. but remember: the thought matters most. it could be a clay ashtray that you made yourself at some foofish craft fair, as long as a lot of heart was put into it. try not to overdo it on the price, as the sheer expensiveness may turn her off.
-gunner
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Bad thing.
Why? You wasted your money.
A couple more months from now you'll be broken up and wondering why you ever went out with her.
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expensive all depends. did the gifts mean anything? any sentimental value? if so, then you are quite romantic and it was a sweet idea.
or did you buy them because they were expensive and you wanted to impress her? If so, then she might feel like she owes you the same for your birthday and that can lead to some trouble.
All in all, price doesnt matter, as long as what you give her is something that means something to her. Something she cherishes, not something too flashy.
hope i helped.
sincerely, pinklady4863
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it seems like a sweet thing. over $50 though seems a little too expencive, but im sure whatever she is, however much it costs, she'll love it!
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Well it all depends. Did she want anything specific? If she wanted a certain item you should have just bought that with like a dozen roses. If she didnt ask for anyhting and said you pick then you did as best as you could.
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Aww I think its sweet. Good Job, you are quite a catch.
:)
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well it really depends on your money range i mean if your rich and have alot of money than sure expensive is good but if you dont have that much money than just get her something from the heart, thats good to
well hope i helped and if you have ne more quesitons just drop em in my inbox ~*kelly*~
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believe me, any girl will love expensive gifts. :)
plus, it shows you really love her, because you are willing to sacrifice for her (im talking $$ hun).
++just make sure you dont have a gold digger on your hands ;)
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Since I am a girl I think that that is very nice. I would like it. See same thing with my boyfriend and I. It is my birthday on Wednesday and I hope her gets me something nice. ♥
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I believe that price doesn't matter at all! I can almost guarantee that your girlfriend will love being close with you on her birthday a million times more than any gift(s) that you could buy her...Even though we do love getting them! =) She will never know how much you spent on her unless you tell her.
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In my experience, expensive gifts are good, but that early in the relationship, you don't want her to know that it was expensive.
It'd be good for you to get her something really nice, but not very common. For instance, I sent my new girlfriend(who I'd known for a while) to a dayspa for her birthday. It cost $165 for the dayspa, plus another 35 for chocolates and the card, but she had no idea how much it had cost. I got the credit for a good gift without it seeming like I was moving too fast and spending too much.
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Okay, you've been dating 4 months now and you got an expensive gift for her? I think for the birthday, just some flowers and a small token of what she means to you would have been better. I mean you have only been together 4 months, so spending less money woulda been best. I could see if you'd been together for a year buying her a bigger gift but you haven't.
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It's alright as long as you don't always buy her very expensive stuff all the time because then she will always want but since it was her birthday with much more good reason that you decided to do so.Also it will show her though that you really like her a lot to give her something that costs a lot of money.That is very generous of you how sweet!
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