heyy okay well i have these 3 BEST friends and they're really cool and everything but .. they're always going out and doing things without me .. i'm always secluded from whatever they do but whenever i'm with them they're really nice ! and plus they are all really pretty and always have great guys in their life and i really don't have many .. what am i supposed to do ?? i'll rate you HiGH if you help me out here !
XmeXohXmie answered Monday October 10 2005, 5:50 pm: Oh man. It is like you are telling me the story of my freshman year. (Actually am a freshman so I guess it is the story if this year?) What I try to do is let them go. When you do, they wont like it and come back to you. Put yourself in a power position, dont let them make you want them. That is what they want. Make other friends, try to flirt with guys, be your own person. Seperate yourself from them.
Juicygirl answered Monday October 10 2005, 4:49 pm: Maybe your friends don't want you to feel left out while they're with their guys. Just say "Hey let me know when yall are heading to the mall, I need to get some cute PJ's for winter". I'm sure they wouldn't try and ditch you just to be spiteful. Remember, your friends can't read your mind. You should confide in one or all of your friends and let them know how much they mean to you and you want to be caught up with times. By the way, don't always assume they're going out all the time because most of the time they're probably home wishing they had something better to do with you ;) [ Juicygirl's advice column | Ask Juicygirl A Question ]
piinkdiiamondsz_17 answered Monday October 10 2005, 3:56 pm: try inviting them to hang out with you.
this way, you can hang out with them, and dont have to wait for the invite. once they see that you're a fun person to hang out with, they'll start asking you do things with them. ♥
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