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Question Posted Monday October 10 2005, 3:09 pm

i love this boy.
he keeps himself completely closed off from the rest of the world.
but i know he hurts inside.
how can i get him to open up to me?


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born2spend016 answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 8:22 pm:
you should tell him how you really feel and he will probably tell you how he feels to. or talk to one of his friends since guys tell their friends everything. so whichever but eaither way you will probably get the truth.

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worthytrustn2 answered Monday October 10 2005, 5:35 pm:
tell him about how you feel about him and tell him how you're always there for him if he needs to talk to anyone. dont show that you are like preassuring him to tell you whats up. the important thing to do is just show him you are there for him and that you care about him!
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Juicygirl answered Monday October 10 2005, 5:01 pm:
You can't force someone to open up to you and they can't see that you're taking an interest in them with good intentions. Especially if he's usually "closed off from the rest of the world".

He's probably just a quiet, simple kinda guy. If you want him to open up to you, you have to squeeze in the door that remains close. Just because you've taken an interest in him doesn't necessarily mean he has taken an interest or even notice in you.

Throw it out there that you're open to talk. Start conversations with him on a daily bases but don't suffocate him. Showing him you care opens him up to a whole new world of YOU. Remember, you might find out that he hurts in a way that you cannot heal with all the love in the world as you'll realize love doesn't solve everything but starts the problems to begin with.

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malibubarbiie111 answered Monday October 10 2005, 4:42 pm:
just be there for him. <33

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funkymunky817 answered Monday October 10 2005, 3:31 pm:
you could try to be friends with him. and then he may or may not open up to you. but if he closes himself off from the rest of the world he may not open up to you right away. just what ever you do dont rush it because if you do it will probably freak him out or something like that. but if you are friends with him made sure he knows that he can trust you. dont actually tell him just let him figure it out.

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