Hello
I am someone who is always there for anyone if anything is wrong. I can talk to anyone about any topic if you ever need to. I am a very kind person, who is shy and knows what it's like being shy and sad and happy and different things. I like to dance,act,row and cook.
Gender: Female
Location: NH
Age: 15
Member Since: September 8, 2005
Answers: 8
Last Update: October 10, 2005
Visitors: 1786
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i love this boy.
he keeps himself completely closed off from the rest of the world.
but i know he hurts inside.
how can i get him to open up to me?
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tell him about how you feel about him and tell him how you're always there for him if he needs to talk to anyone. dont show that you are like preassuring him to tell you whats up. the important thing to do is just show him you are there for him and that you care about him!
i hope i helped !!
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how do you make destroyed jeans...any ideas?...well i know you use paint and sisscors but i heard a cheese grater was good too? (link)
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u can use a razor blade--go against it and it will make cuts/damaging like abercrombie/american eagle jeans...just do it carefully!
hope it works !
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OK im 13/f i got my period for the 1st time on sunday and i do not have a mother or any brothers or sisters to talk to ..... just my dad.... i dont wanna tlk to him about this .. i have some supplies that i got from the talk but they are runnimg out very quickly... how can i bring this subject up with my dad without making him freak out...... thanks a million ill rate u a 5 no matter what!!!!
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your dad will not freak out.
he will soo understand this. he had a wife-- There is nothing for him to be freaked out about you just tell him that you started your period and that you need pads or tampons or w/e you need if you get tampons read the instructions i would perfer you 2 use pads since your only 13 and its like your 1st time..it would be safer. then when ur older like 14/15 w/e age you can decide ifyou want 2 use them.
i hope i helped hun. if you need anything else im here!
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well... my life is great and i know that but like sometimes i just cant help feeling really sad...like i want to cry all the time and i over-analyze everything around me making everything scarry and bad...and like i started cutting a while ago and recently its gotten worse...like its gotten deep to the point where ill pass out and wake up w/tons of blood all over..and like sometimes ill just take some pills to knock myself out and get away from it all..and like i cant sleep.. i havent in about a week...and i wont eat...i refuse to...i have food and it will make me even more fat than i am right now... but like sometimes ill just sit in my room and ill be real calm and just crying for hours...then suddenly ill like flip and like i will start screaming and throwing things and like i will hate every 1 and everything around me...ill just like loose coltrol and start fighting with myself and slicing open my arm while doing so and like its just gotten so far and so bad that everyone thinks im crazy...even though i make sure not to loose it in front of other ppl...but like my arms are covered in scars...like after one of my episodes the other day i finaly calmed down but couting them and i couted 367 on my arms and 68 on my ankles...like where i live its cool all the time so i can wear hoodies and stuff but its still like omg...i wanna stop so bad but its turned into an obsession and like ill jsut find myself doing it...im scarred that one of these days im gonna go too far and die...even though many many times i have thought about suiside...well there really isnt much n e one can do for me but if you do have any non-cocky non-smart ass answers its much appriciated!
p s ill rate high for really good answers!! thx
♥ rrenef ♥ (link)
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aw honey
i used to cut and it was getting really bad too but not to the point where you are. cutting is really addictive and i know how it feels when you want to stop and then at times you just don't care what happens and so you do it. I think you should really tell someone about ur problem. where are your parents in all of this? what has been going on to make you do this? try something else to cope your problems w/ like write in a journal or live journal which is what i use and write how u feel if your upset, or you could listen to music or do something you love like a sport or painting or cooking anything or you could talk to someone you reallyy trust like a friend or even a family member like a sibling about how you feel. You really need to start eating its not gonna make a difference if you dont eat, you will just get skinner and people will defiently know your not eating--you dont wana get yourself into that situation. you need help..i got a therapist and she helped me so much and i had my friends and i wrote in a journal and did stuff i liked--although i still have feelings for cutting sometimes and i do but def. not as bad as long ago.
i hope this helps and good luck..
if you everrr need 2 talk to me im here for you!!
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Where do you get AIM Plus? Like links please..I rate! (link)
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http://www.big-o-software.com/products/aimplus/
on the left side just click download
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these two guys (one is my X who i never liked) think that i am a slut now because of a note that they misunderstood or something. i really dont care about theyre opinions but now theyre telling the whole school im a slut and thats theyre away message! what can i do? (link)
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ignore them
they are saying something to people thatyou know is not true at all so you don't need to worry about it its not true and who cares. they are just being stupid trying to prove something you are not screw them !
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I want to express my feelings to one of my guy friends. Ive known him for about one month now. We say i love you all the time but i dont think he means it like i do. i dont want to sound to desperate so what do i say?? or should i get a friend to do it? or write him a note. Im kinda shy. (link)
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hey i know what ur going through it is hard and i am shy especially w/ guys i like..
well i say you should tell him how you feel about him next time you guys hang out together alone...if he doesnt feel the same way you do w/ him which i doubt he will its okay because you guys can just become closer friends and then be bestfriends :) which would be cool and nice..i hope this works and let me know !
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Here's the deal;; My parents have always kept a good eye on me, and I love them, but they've always held on a little too tight. I mean, my parents still dont usually let me go to the movies at night with my friends!
My friend Sarah has a boyfriend that her mother used to not let her see because ...they moved too fast and she knew it. Her mom even got a restraining order against him for the next four years! But out of nowwhere this year, her mom decided that they could see each other again.
Since I've always been held on a tight leash, and my mom knew about Sarah and her boyfriend, I can't go anywhere where he is. Now since it's the school year, my friends all go to the movies everry friday night.......and Sarah brings her boyfriend. I've always been honost with my mom, but when I asked her if I could go to the movies, I mentioned that Sarah's boyfriend was going, and she said N-O. But it's not even about this, my parents have always normally said I couldn't do stuff with my friends at night, since they feel it's "unsafe". I want to be honost with my parents, but It'd be so much easier if I left little details of my plans out. I don't want to though, but I'm so sick of getting left behind while all of my friends go out and have fun on friday nights and I'm stuck at home, I mean, I'm 14! That's a reasonable age, I feel.
What can I do to let my parents a.) loosen up b.)let me be around sarah when her b/f is around
Please help me! It's starting to drive me c-r-a-z-y!
If anyone is actually willing to listen to the whole story (yes, it's longer than this) please leave your screen name. It's really upsetting me now because I'm worried they NEVER let me do ANYTHING :[.
x0 Ally. (link)
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hey
im sorry about this...
that sucks...
i guess you can try 2 get an understanding from ur parents about why you can't hang out w/ friends and sarah...if you dont do much around the house for helping do so and try not 2 have arguments w/ your parents and make sure you do good in school...im not sure whhat you could really do but i think the best thing is to talk 2 your mom and tell her how you feel about not being able 2 hang out and telling her you want her 2 trust you and stuff...i hope that works...
good luckk :)
im 15--female here 2 talk if u ever need me
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