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I want to express my feelings to one of my guy friends. Ive known him for about one month now. We say i love you all the time but i dont think he means it like i do. i dont want to sound to desperate so what do i say?? or should i get a friend to do it? or write him a note. Im kinda shy.
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i think you should write him a note or call him but def. not ur friends whatever floats ur boat
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get someone you really realy trust to ask him .also start giving ideas that you like him.smile at him sexily.also ask him who he likes.then touch more than ou used to.slide you breast on his back or hand.of course innocently.
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hey i know what ur going through it is hard and i am shy especially w/ guys i like..
well i say you should tell him how you feel about him next time you guys hang out together alone...if he doesnt feel the same way you do w/ him which i doubt he will its okay because you guys can just become closer friends and then be bestfriends :) which would be cool and nice..i hope this works and let me know !
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This is what I don't understand, there is nothing desperate about anything you just said in your question. My girlfriends (men included) and I say it all the time so hopefully i don't have to worry about sending any romantic signals to my PP sorority girls. In other words your guy friend probably assumes this is perfectly normal and just shows that he cares about you.. as a friend. Another reason might be, if you said i love you to him and he had no response or took it for what it isn't then it might end up awkward and he might be embarrassed. I can understand your confusion since those intimate words can be interpreted in any way. From what it looks like, your status is just friends who are comfortable with letting the other person know they care. But really, one month is too little time to tell what you truly feel about the other person, especially not enough time to be using those words when you don't even know that person well. I suggest getting to know him better before acting on those feelings. If you do decide to pursue it, never ever ever let a friend play scout or write it in a note, email, instant message, whatever. Friends can't express your feelings as well as you can. If you think writing a note it shows you're not yet mature enough to interpret these feelings. Both ways make your confession sound insincere and makes your lack of confidence bleed through.
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Just have a friend drop the hint in a manner like you didn't know they were going to say something in the first place. Your not going to seem desperate unless you do this frequently. I wouldn't do a note... sometimes those get wierd, I know firsthand. Good Luck!
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