Question Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 4:14 pm
Ok so Im a freshman and theres a new kid whos a sophmore, Macon, And he rides my bus and is in two of my classes on the other side of the room in one. Everyone thinks hes annoying becasue he asks a lot of stupid questions (beiing sarcastic) in class but i think its kinda funny. Hes kinda short but really cute. And idk if he even notices me besides when i get on the bus.. but i thought i saw him looking at me in spainish. I dont think i can ever EVER work up the nerve to talk to him. Im trying to look interested like today in class he said something and everyone laughed and i was laughing and i looked at him and smiled.. i think he saw. Hes also in my lunch on day 1 (theres 6 diff days) But .. I dunno everyone thinks hes stupid and i dont and i like him a lot but i dont think ill ever be able to talk to him unless he says something first ! AHHH ! WHAT TO DO WHAT TO DO !?
whatnext answered Thursday September 8 2005, 6:58 pm: im not trying to be rude... but... if you do "like" or think this guy is cute and want to talk to him... you have to work up the nerve... because who knows maybe he thinks ur pretty too... but he doesnt know if you like him... try talking to him... ask him what class he has next... or heres a better one... walk up to him ( yes you have to get the courage sometime ) and ask if hes new... obivously he'll say yes, and be like, well hey im so and so... and ask if hes met anyone yet. its not that hard... its not like your walking up to him and asking him out or if he has a gf... cmon.
you know, if you dont get the courage sooner or later... i doubt things will ever happen. sorry if thats a rude answer :( [ whatnext's advice column | Ask whatnext A Question ]
3RingBinder answered Thursday September 8 2005, 4:30 pm: Hi, I think that no matter what everyone says or thinks you should follow your heart. The guy that you have a crush on sounds like a pretty decent guy who speaks his mind. Maybe eveyone else is not as outspoken as him and plain envy him for this. If you fekk you cn;t work up the nerve to speak to him, you shouldn't wait around and tourture yourself. You can write him a note asking him if he wants to hang out, aka grad a bite after school or go out on the weekend. If you have his email, you could do that over the email. Admit this: passing over a note is much easier than saying to your crushs' face you like him. On the other hand, he might be shy to talk to you and a note from you might be the answer to his prayers. Don't think that it's not romantic because he didn't talk to you first, you will have plenty of romantic moments to enjoy once your relationship takes off! Good Luck! [ 3RingBinder's advice column | Ask 3RingBinder A Question ]
DrTommy answered Thursday September 8 2005, 4:27 pm: One of two things.
1. you can work up the nerve to say hi
2. try to find a way to talk to him online, if that's even possible.
You have take the chance and try to talk to him. Considering the fact that everyone seems to think he's silly, and you see beyond that, he'd be a lucky guy getting a girl like you :) [ DrTommy's advice column | Ask DrTommy A Question ]
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