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E-mail: drtommy4sups@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: IN
Occupation: Student/Actor
Age: 20
Member Since: September 6, 2005
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I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 26/5 . I know my boyfriend for two months.he is labenese and i'm iranian , we were a happy couple we never had a fight . one day he told me that his family wants him to marry a girl from his own nationality. and when i asked him about his idea he said that he likes the girl but as the same time he does not want to lose me!!!!and i was upset i told him we need to talk but he kept postponing ourdate then we could not talk. I wrote to him that I love him and i can not see him with somebody else , so i will move out of his life and he can go on with his. from that day he is not giving me a direct answer, he keeps saying that he does not want to lose me but he does not talk to me about the whole issue. I even tried not to answer his calls for few days but he kept calling.he is insisting that we have to continue our relationship. I don't know who I am in his life anymore. by the way he told his causine that he loves me as a sister!!! I don't remember being his sister. he does not know what he wants.all i know is that i love him but i want this relationship only if I know that he also has some feelings for me. PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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his family clearly must have some kinda of hold on him, that is unfortunate. If he intends to marry the other girl, but still expects you and him to be as close as you too were before, then something's wrong with that.
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I'm a twenty-one year old girl in love with a forty-seven year old man. We met at church, went back to my house on only the second time of meeting and had sex. After that he has been distant but kind. He says he feels afraid of his own disconnection. I don't know why, but I feel more for him than I have felt for anyone in a long time. I miss him when we're apart, even though we're not dating and I play it cool, determined not to crowd him or drive him off. But do bachelors that age remain bachelors? (link)
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this one is tough. When you get involved with somone else that is that much older than you, it complicates things for both of you. There is probably a big "generational gap" that is between you two. As a younger person, you crave the love and attention, while he has already been through that and needs some time to chill and mello out. He may be questioning if what he did was right, also considering your age, and may be confused about his own personal feelings toward you. I dn't know his personal history, but assuming he's been single for some time, he may plan to stay that way, so be careful if you are considering marriage . Idk, it is a gut feeling, just be careful.
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Ok so Im a freshman and theres a new kid whos a sophmore, Macon, And he rides my bus and is in two of my classes on the other side of the room in one. Everyone thinks hes annoying becasue he asks a lot of stupid questions (beiing sarcastic) in class but i think its kinda funny. Hes kinda short but really cute. And idk if he even notices me besides when i get on the bus.. but i thought i saw him looking at me in spainish. I dont think i can ever EVER work up the nerve to talk to him. Im trying to look interested like today in class he said something and everyone laughed and i was laughing and i looked at him and smiled.. i think he saw. Hes also in my lunch on day 1 (theres 6 diff days) But .. I dunno everyone thinks hes stupid and i dont and i like him a lot but i dont think ill ever be able to talk to him unless he says something first ! AHHH ! WHAT TO DO WHAT TO DO !? (link)
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One of two things.
1. you can work up the nerve to say hi
2. try to find a way to talk to him online, if that's even possible.
You have take the chance and try to talk to him. Considering the fact that everyone seems to think he's silly, and you see beyond that, he'd be a lucky guy getting a girl like you :)
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Ok well i really like my ex i think i love him its just so weird well hes going out with this girl that is really mean and stuff nobody really likes her and i cant tell him how i feel well what i was wondering what can i do to make this feeling of likeing hime or even loving him i mean its kinda weird and i just get sad over stuff and i kinda want to be his girl friend again but i dont know what to do anyone have any advice (link)
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It is always tough when your ex gets a new girlfriend, most people have that reaction when they see something like that. If you meet a guy that you like, you will be able to move on. :)
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can soemone teach me how to flirt? cuz.. i do it... people told me i did it.. but huh? i dont' knwo what i'm doing??? .. flirting is a mistery (link)
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Flirting is all about feeling confidant in yourself, you have to tease here and there, maybe a wink. I've never really heard of anyone having problems flirting, but that's all i can think of.
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Whenever my boyfriend comes over we usually just sit and watch T.V or a movie. This is really boring after a while and I want him to feel like he's having fun when he's around me. Is there anything fun that we can do whenever he's over? Nothing sexual or physical; I just mean fun by enjoying one another's company.
Ex: Making a cake, going to the park, etc.
Thank You. (link)
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Games are fun, not sex games ;) just any games, video games, board games, word games, outdoors games. Give that a try :)
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Ok... So I'm 18... and my boyfriend is 17.... So.. He is still in school and I graduated last year... I'm soo use to being with my boyfriend like all the time.. and today is the first day of school... So now I'm like lost and dont know what to do to keep myself occupied so I'm not thinking about him all day. When I think about it.. I just get upset.. I know.. It's bad... But I work from 12 to 5*30.. but he plays football so he has practice till like 6 or 7 at night.. :/... I Dont know what to do... Please Help...
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That is a tough thing to go through and i can sympathize with it completely. You may have to resort to seeing him on the weekends or online/telephone conversations to keep in touch til the football season ends. I know its not the same, but at least that way you are still in touch with him.
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I just started my Sophmore year of highschool. From the begining of Freshman year 'til now, I've lost MANY friends for stupid reasons. Mainly because I got into a fight with one girl that I was best friends with and then she got all of her friends to hate me too. Which was about 15 people. How nice right?
Anyway, I have a reputation of being a bitch. Because.. Well, I CAN be. But I'm really not when you get to know me.
I really want to try to change my reputation on being a bitch, I want to show people that I AM a good person and attempt to make new friends. But I really need help on changing my reputation. Any ideas? (link)
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If people want to believe lies than let them, you said it yourself - "But I'm really not when you get to know me."
Let nice people get to know you and then the more friends you make, the better your reputation will be, although sometimes a reputation isn't what is important in life.
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im almost 14 years old and i weigh 130ish n im almost 5'6, i have stretch marks all over my thighs , and on my ass, i get looked at weird all the time, am i over weight?is there something wrong with me, last year i got called fat like 500 times plzz help me i rate high, 13-fm
&heartsl; Michaele ♥ (link)
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exercise and (no fast food) can change life, it did for me. When i graduated highschool i was 5 ft 6 and 206 pounds, after exercising and swearing off fatty foods (fast food, soda, ect.)I lost a lot of weight and now I look and feel much better. Give it a try :)
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Is it okay to date several guys at once. i am 14 and i dont want to be serious with just ONE guy...i just like to hang out with them all!!! (link)
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Its rare these days, but not unheard of. Just make sure the guys know how you feel or you could get into trouble.
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