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this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl.

i personally dont like catholics in the first place.if the thoughts just keep coming back over and over again then maybe its just telling you something. take a chance. maybe he's the one for you.
love always,
shelby

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are men (guys) supposed to masterbate?

yes. everyone is suppose to masterbate, everyone who feels confortable with it. if they dont then they really shouldn't do it. but everyone should try it atleast once...damn.
love always,
shelby

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okay.. so theres this boy that likes me who i really like also... he told his best friend that him and i were going to go out.. but he hasnt asked me yet... his best friend tells me that hes most likely going to cheat on me... so thats a bummer right? well.. i realy really like him you know but i dont want to be cheated on.... so i thought maybe i could go out with him but not think much of it.. but that wouldnt make the relation ship work... than i decided i could realllly dedicate myself to him and that would stop him from cheating on me.. but no one wants their heart brokend.. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?


signed... helpless!

i know its not much. but stay away from that kind of relationship. i know. i cheated on my boyfriend twice. it broke his heart and me breaking his heart broke my heart. i haven't yet been the one who got cheated on, but i've been in relationships similar to it and it sucks. it causes drama and hearache that people dont need. and this boys friend who says that yall are going to go out? how do you know he's telling the truth? if it were me i would just stare at the guy and wish he were mine and totally not get involved. plus maybe this guys friend just wants you for himself so he's making it up. who knows, i think you should find out a little bit more before making a choice.
love always,
shelby

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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months now. Anyway, at the beginning ont the relationship we'd be so eager to talk to eachother, and talk on the phone every night, and ditch friends for eachother, etc.

Now, we don't talk on the phone for periods of time. (Right now it's been 11 days since I've talked to him on the phone) And we hang out amazingly less, and I don't feel the urge anymore to check the computer every 5 minutes to see if he's online. When I do get to talk to him, I feel so uninterested. I could honestly go days without talking to him, and it wouldn't bug my anymore. Sometimes I cry because I don't understand what's happening, and it really upsets me. Could it be that I'm just losing interest/we both are in eachother? :(

Tuesday night on AIM I told him that I felt I was losing interest in him, and he repsonded, "Geez, I like you a lot, I can't just stop." Then he put up an away message that said, "I fucking screwed up somehow." And signed off. We eventually resolved the problem, but I feel I lied. I told him I still did like him, and I was stupid to say that. But really, I feel EXACTLY like that. I'm not as interested. What's happening? Do I WANT to get over him or something..?

Thank you.

the same thing happened to me. i liked this boy for over a year, almost secretly obsessed. when he finally asked me out i was so happy. i thought it was the best thing that could ever happen to me.the same thing happened: spent a lot of time on the phone together and spent a lot of time on the weekends together. then i started to feel like i didnt want to be around him anymore. when he didnt call, i didnt care. i was glad. when i tried to talk to him about the "me not liking him" situation he said some things like, "ooohhh but i like you SO much. i've NEVER felt like this before." he just wanted me to feel sorry for him so i wouldnt break up with him. but i did anyways and we aren't even friends now. it's completely normal. people change, things change, it's the human way we just have to deal with it. whatever you do, please talk it out with him first, you never know, maybe he can say something to change your mind.

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