ok well i used to go out with this boy im not saying his name tho and well he treated me with respect and he cared about me and he would always see how my day was and cheer me up he was the only guy who could ever make me laugh and smile when i was crying or deprssed and then i dumped him for another guy that i thought was sweet but apparently not becuz he keeps telling me and with alot of force in his tone to give him head and to have sex with him and i reallie miss the guy i dumped becuz he was the closest thing to perfect that i had in my life and when it was just me and him it felt like nothing else existed but me and him and the least i could have done was treated him with respect in return. and this is all my fault!!!
plz help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoGaByXo92 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:35 pm: aw that other guy sounds so sweet! look, just dump this new guy. he cant force you to do anything and he doesnt sound like he is worth any of it. this other guy sounds super sweet. if you care about him that much then go for it. talk to him about how you feel and try to fix things with him. be like hey listen i was thinking and you came across my mind. i thought about it and i made the biggest mistake ever. i dumped you and i didnt want that. i love and care for you so much and whatever and then be like will you ever forgive me and take me back....just say something like that.
GoOd LuCk [ XoGaByXo92's advice column | Ask XoGaByXo92 A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday April 7 2005, 3:48 pm: Aw! You should of never let that guy go no matter what. You made a mistake but it will be fine. Talk to this guy before anythign else happens. Tell him you made a mistake and that you really miss him. Tell him you love him and how you feel. He is really sweet so he will listen. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday April 7 2005, 2:29 pm: Dump the new guy and go see if you can mend it with the old one. If you are honest with him and tell him you made a mistake he may take you back.
You made a mistake. It happens. Don't give up, go have a talk. I would break up with new guy regardless. There are better guy's out there :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
cokecap_x21 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 1:11 pm: ok this is not a VERY bad situasion[sorry spelling]
Dump that loser who wants you to have sex with you!! Next,tell your old boyfriend you were sorry for dumping him,dont ask him out just yet.Become friends,good friends,see what will happen then!
--i hope i helped [ cokecap_x21's advice column | Ask cokecap_x21 A Question ]
girlygirl answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:37 am: wow... we all make mistakes, now how to fix it. First - break up with loser boy whether you have a new boyfriend or not. Any guy that would use a forceful tone to demand sex/head/whatever - is a jerk and will always be a jerk.
give yourself some time alone and maybe, just maybe, nice guy will see that you learned your lesson and would value him much more this time around.
good luck chick. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 9:54 am: i dont know exactly what the question is here. but im going to take a stab at it and say that yu want to know what to do about this... so my answer to that would be to dump this jerk that your are dating now and go back to your ex. tell him you didnt realize how much he actually meant to you until you lost him. he may take you back but he may not because you hurt him once and he doesnt want to be hurt again. you got a 50/50 chance girl. so get on that. alteast you know you tried. and dont stay with this new guy. he seems like a total ass. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.