My boyfriend of 3 days asked me out over the phone at midnight. He always calls me at ridiculous times, even before we were going out, and always tells me to call him at a specific time the next day. Except, the day after he asked me, when I called him, he didn't answer his phone.
He called me at about 8pm, apologising and saying that he was ill - but that I could come to his house tomorrow if I wanted and I should call him at 11. I called and he didn't pick up.
That was yesterday, and still he hasnt spoken to me.
What should I do?
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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Saturday April 9 2005, 12:14 am: this guy is a wrirdo you needs to be talking on the phone that late any ways hes obviously immatiure and thinks its cool to talk late at night.. bit whooopie lol get a guy who dosent alwyas have you sitting by the phone waiten.. instead picking u up for a nice daTe! lol [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
Lil-keaney answered Friday April 8 2005, 10:28 am: Well ask him why he is so difficult and just ring him when YOU want... boys should NEVER boss you around always make sure you got them under YOUR thumb... dont start sucking up to him by calling him make him do the chasing! hope it helps
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Teza answered Thursday April 7 2005, 4:02 pm: Ask him why? Next time he tells you to call him at a specific time dont. Call him whenever you arnt busy and whenever you want. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday April 7 2005, 2:34 pm: Ask him why it is that he's never there when you call at a time he specified. I wouldn't call him at all myself, i'd tell him to call me when he can and just forget calling him. I think you deserve to know whats going on. It's only been 3 day's he should be more attentive i'd think. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
girlygirl answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:40 am: you should dump him! any guy that tells you to call at "specific" times (and then blows you off anyhow) has something else going on. And he only calls you at late hours means he's doing something else till then. don't wait for him to treat you badly... just get rid of him quick. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
BeautifulMadness answered Thursday April 7 2005, 11:10 am: I kinda agree with the last answer, but...if he really is sick, that doesn't stop him answering the phone when he knows you're gonna ring. Text him, ring him, or speak to him face to face and say that if he doesn't stop messing you around with the dumb phonecalls in the middle of the night and then not picking up when you ring back then you won't be around much longer. Even though having fun is an important part of any relationship, you're not there to be messed around.
If you don't want to do that then just don't ring him. If he's so sick that he can't pick up the phone then what's the point in ringing him? Let him ring you for a change.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
(P.S. Small world again eh? :P) [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Thursday April 7 2005, 10:09 am: You have been dating for 3 days! Relax. He's sick, give him a break. Give him a few days before getting mad at him for not calling. You don't want to seem like a needy girlfriend. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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