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does he love me or not?
I told my friend that i loved him. I wrote him a letter and basicly told him that I loved him and that even though we can't be together now I hope in the future we can be more than friends. (he moved to NC) Well he wrote me back and said cool. and then he's been ignoring me for the past two weeks. Well tonight I had a new sn on aim. and I IMed his sister..obviously thinking it was her lol. and he was like this is justin. and all I could say was "oh" and so he was like "oh. that's what i am to you!" he really confuses me. I mean if he liked me the same as I like him why won't he say it?! when i had a bf and it old him he said "we can't have a long distant relationship?" and when he lived up here by me. we would be close and hug and sometimes kiss each other on the cheek. i just don't know what's happening with this. I'm fine with us being close friends but I can't stand him acting like that. what should I do? we never really talk anymore. and it seems like he doesn't want me to every talk to him. and it makes me sad to know I'll never talk to him agian.
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try your best to keep in touch, phone, email, instant messenger, mail, etc. communication is a key role in any relationship. you need to ask him how he feels, and see if its a mutual feeling or not. long distance relationships are tough though, expecially since you are 14 and unable to drive. but, never give up, keep in touch and never stop being friends, who knows;maybe one day youll be together for good!
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I advice you to talk to him about this. The problem can onl yget better if you know how he really feels. When he wrote you back and said cool, I don't think he really meant it like that, he may have meant that it's cool that you love him, but if didn't repeat that he loves you too and that maybe someday it may happen then you shouldn't assume that he feels the same. After you talk to him about it he will make it a lot better and you'll know where he stands and maybe you too are better as friends but you won' tknow how he feels and he won't feel at ease until you talk about the thing online and get him to say more then cool, or oh.
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oh? thats not very love like. he obviously doesnt love or like you....or care for you so just let him go and move on.
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"oh. thats what i am to you"
It means hes a whiner who likes you. Dont bother with him, hes a pussie whos feelings are easily hurt.
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I had a boyfriend like this once... I ended up finding out he had bipolar...lol but that might not be the case here. I think since he moved and doesn't want to talk to you now I guess you just should forget about him.. plus he's not worth your time if he treats you like that.
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maybe he`s n0t ready f0r "l0ve" right n0w. just take things sl0w and just talk t0 him as y0u w0uld if y0u never said u l0ve him. just as friends.. and if there is signs that hes starting t0 like y0u.. then y0u kn0w see if he tells y0u. but l0ng distant relati0nships are n0t fun. y0u never see him, y0u d0nt kn0w if hes cheating 0n y0u, at least if he lived by y0u, tnen y0u w0uld at least get t0 see him.. ♥
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