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I REALLY NEED UR ADVICE
ok well i have been best friends with illy,cassie for at least 4-3 years each.. latley now that were in high school and everything they always group up.. and i feel like ok .. should i walk away or just go with them... im never a follower.. i cant stand that, but illy has a boyfriend and her boyfriend obviously like cassie better than me.. the reason is i have no idea ! i mean her boyfriend doesnt bother me, but at times he does.. i dont know how to explain it.. any ways all last week i was dealing with alot of family problems, and both of them knew that.. so i wasnt all in a very good mood to talk even though i still did.. friday comes along and cassie and illy have planned to go to this dance recital at our high school, they didnt even invite me to go.. but i wanted to go any ways so i asked my good friend brittany if she wanted to go... so me and her went ! we got there and brittanys friend steven had already had our seats saved and about 3 others that if any of our friends showed up could sit there.. well i saw illy , cassie 2 rows in front of me.. i called illy to ask her something and cassie picked up the phone.. i said if they had plans to hang out with eachother afterwards and if we should all do something tonight.. cassie said no then hung up pretty much right away before i could ask if they wanted to come sit by me and britt.. cassie texted me saying ' why didnt u sit by us ' and i explained that steven had me, brittanys seats saved and that i wasnt really invited by them to go any ways.. she kept saying ' whatever ' so i finally said ' you know wut cass, this whole week you've been really bitchy towards me, not illy '.. and she just replyed thats pretty sweet.. and im like are you mad at me and she just said ' id rather not answer that ' so i was pretty much like forget it.. later that night through text i said i was sorry for whatever i did but it wasnt a good week for me until today but then u had to go ruin it by being a bitch to me for no reason..
... so now she said last night she wasnt mad @ me.. but she ingorned me completly today and when she was by me and illy she just talked to her..
i have no idea what to do, should i just ingore her ? or what ? please help.. ill rate !
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It seems that you need to cut her out of your life. For whatever reason she seems to have issues with you and your relationship with her just doesn't seem healthy. You should possibly hang out with Brittany more because she seems like she's a better friend than Cassie. Remember friends are supposed to make your life more enjoyable not more stressful
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Walking with your friends doesn't make you a follower so I think if they are going someplace, you should walk with them because it sounds like you feel you are being excluded.
It doesn't matter what her boyfriend thinks about you compared to Cassie, he isn't your boyfriend and his stupidity shouldn't effect your friendship with Illy.
As far as them not inviting you, it may be because you were in a nasty mood all week and they figured you would either ruin the mood or that you wouldn't want to go. No one wants to bring someone who's acting emo the whole week. I think the whole thing through texting should just be dropped and you should ask her face to face if she's mad, too many things can be misconstrued through text messaging.
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it sounds as if cassie is happy that she got a friend and she doesnt want to loose that friend and she doesnt want you taking her friend away. just ignore her.. and actl ike your perfectly fine and dandy, hang out with other friends.. she will get jealous eventually..nd if she doesnt.. you dont need her anyways, and if illy is a good friend she will realize what cassie is doing and she will come back to you. judst ignore her basically.. but sometimes all a person needs is someone to stand upto them and tell them straight how it is. some people dont see their problems.. so its up to us to let them know. :)
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you really don't need friends like cassie!!! friends don't do that 2 each other. if she's leaving you out and being mean 2 you like this, then you've said sorry and there's nothing you can do about it. if she's still mad at you even though you said sorry, then you need better friends. she doesn't deserve 2 have friends like you. you should just ignore her and tell her that if she keeps doing this then you don't need a friend like her
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