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ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5
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Ok sweetie, first off. If you are this confused about it all, then you prolly aren't ready. I have been there. When you are ready then you will know. Trust me. Just listen to your heart and be smart about it. When its time, you will know that your ready and it will be WONDERFUL for you and your bf. Best of luck babe.
<3 Heidi
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you guys need to talk long and hard about this.
lmao long & hard.
that sounded so wrong.
ANYWAY.
if you trust him, then go for it. you are aloud to make your own decisions. yeah it is a bit young, im 14 & im not going to have sex yet. but if its what you want to do, and you feel like its the right choice, then all the luck to you.
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lemme know how it turns out.
well lol.. uhmm just tell me your decision.
not how the sex went.
ha.
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well yes inmy apinion you are 2 young but thats me... so if you really love him and trust him then make him use a condom and if you are i nlove wit him i guess you should do it but go ahead and be safe follow your heart... have fun 8===D()
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If you truly ready for him to do that and you believe he is ready then go for it! If you are confused and aren't sure... wait a while! there's no rush!!
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Okay, well i don't think you're too young.. but if you are confused about it i would wait until you are completely sure you want it to happen,because trust me things are alott more fun and better when you want them as bad as he does.. have fun with whatever you decide:-)
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sicne you confused, then don't do it, wait till your completely ready, also i don't think your to young, just don't have sex, cuz when you get to be about my age ((16 soon to be 17)) and you look at the lil kids that you know, you'll be like your to young to be doing that, and then you think about it and your like WOW that's how old i was my 1st time doing this or that, but yeah, just do what you feel is right!! ps. it might hurt a lil, cuz my good friend her 1st time was the other day and it kind of hurt her, but all girls are diff. when it comes to that!!
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since you are confused, i wouldnt do it...you have plenty of time later when you become more sure..also people will find out and probably say stuff...and that can get bad in high school.
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If you are ready, I dont' think it's too young. That happened to my my eigth grade year, but then again, I didn't know what it meant and I wasn't ready, but I didn't know what to do. So, I'm telling you now, if he wants to- and you aren't ready, then dont' worry about what HE wants- worry about what YOU want. Just tell him that you dont' think your ready for it yet. If he loves you then he'll understand, and if not, you'll know what he really wanted. But, I'm sure he'll understand. If you are ready though, I say GO GO GO! Just know what your limits are before you know what he wants. Hope I helped! -Sahara
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Firts of all make sure you are completely ready to go to 3rd base..if your not sure DONT do it. If he loves you as well he'll wait. I know you love him and all, but make sure your a 100% ready because it can also ruin your reputation.
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don't do it! if you're confused, then you're not ready. if he really does love you, he'll wait.
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I'm 14 too. and I know that 3rd base is not sex (thats home) 3rd is finger and blowjob. Ok, so anyway. YOu love this guy, and you trust him, but are you ready to give up your reputation for this guy?
at least in my school, third is slutty and i am going into the high school next year as well and third will proably be the norm. Just be ready because he will tell his friends. All guys will and it will get around, trust me. You might regret it later.
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you can never do what he is forcing you to do because it is all your dissicion and if you trust him enough and love him and think that your ready then go for it
have fun renee
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You should search your heart, and only do something if you are comfortable with him. If you both know that you are going to be with one another for a long time, just becareful and take the proper percautions, and you will have nothing to worry about. Just think about it,and let him know how you feel, and then go for it, if both of you are ready.
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If you're not sure your not ready.
You should feel really comfortible with this before you try it. It's simple. If you're not sure your not ready. Plus 14 is really young to committ like this. You have all your life to have sex.
hope this cleared your mind.
~kooka
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