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my dad
i have never got on with my dad very well from a young, i didnt like something he did so i told him and he didn't seem to get the message to stop so i said stop or i'm running away he didn't so i did what i said and ran away, my friends dad was there and he knew everything that had been going on and said he would hit him if he didnt stop so my dad being like 1/5 of his size stoped, this was like 18 months ago now ever since he has been trying to like get me back i use to cut myself and he knew everytime it didnt change anything though its like i'll be on the phone he'll shout... i'll be on the computer he'll shout and make up things when i yell back he'll just say that im over reacting and twisting what he is saying.. hes always taking my phone off me grounding me for things i havent done.
e.g. i got the wrong coat out the cupboard he grounded me for 6 months from ahving or going to a sleep over.
i use just my folk at dinner yesterday and not with the knif he goes who out ya friends have you got that off then i just went no one and walked out the room saying fine then i wont eat at all.
he didnt offer me any food all night.
my mum doesnt do anything about this and when i go see my councellor she just says look what your parents are going through and im just like there punishing me for no reason.. i endded up in hospital in dec for taking an overdose and they just told the nurses i had fallen out with my friends to make me look stoopid he just didnt want to get in trouble he blames me for everything and i think its just to do with what happened like 18 months ago i seriously cant do anything right i walk in the room and he'll say something he hasn't been talking to him for the last 2 weeks because i do everything wrong and i just dotn know what to do anymore im only 14 i cant move out or anything im just stuck i have a sister but she dont care she only thinks about herself and does everything they say and they never say anything to her even if she does something wrong if i were to do that they would ground me, im always being grounded or told off for something and its just taking over me right now.. is there anyway i can get out of here, or at least stop my dad from trying ot take over my life??
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Yeah im with <3 if you could exsplain it in other words I could understand it!!
From what I think I understand is your dad is punishing you and you no longer know what to do. Im guessing your sister is younger so she doesnt care. And they prolly punish you cause your older or they feel your more responsible. I kno im olderst out of my two siblings. And I always get blamed for stuff but you learn to get over it. Butif you keep yellin/talkin back it will only make things worser. I know you havent done anything but you should really try and like search online for stuff to help you out! Otherwise my uncle went through what I think your goin through so I may be able to help ya out! My screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO!! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!
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hey if you could maybe explain in other words (maybe not so many run-ons) i think i could help you out. <3
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