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Well see i'm 15 and i'm a female and i'm not going out with this guy, but i gave him head and he ate me out at a football game in the back of his van. I was caught up in the moment and now everyone is calling me a slut. I have no idea of what to do, should i stick up for myself or just ignore them. The advice would be very helpful. thanks!
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if you can handle it, just ignore them, because if you defend yourself, they'll see that it gets to you and continue, even after they forget what you did. and you also wouldn't want to say something you regret, like that you didn't do it, because then well your doomed as a liar and a bitch and all sorts of other things. people will make up worse rumors, like you're pregnant or something with stuff you "said" back at them because you were angry with them.
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well i dont think you should be doing that anyway...wait for someone special....dont just be going out doing people....wait....dont worry if people think you are a slut...stand up for yourself...
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hey! by ignoring them you are standing up for yourself in a way. my advice to you is to ignore them. after a while they will get bored of saying that stuff about you if they see that it has no affect on you. and something else will come by, and they will forget about what you did at the football game. it will eventually just be a bad memmory of them saying that stuff about you, and if you ignore them, they should stop pretty quickly. hope i helped, peace and love!
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Ignore them, it'll pass and they'll find smthn else to talk about. And there are soo many more people more slutty then that...so they're dumb to call you a slut. But if they really get annoying just stick up for yourself....1/2 the poeple calling you a slut probably have done the same thing..people are just rude. And I def. know what you mean you just got caught up in the moment...
=) HoPe I HeLpEd
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How did everyone find out first of all. And second of all there are a lot better places to do such things then at a football game. I feel sorry for you. And your not a slut tons of people do stupid things like that so dont feel bad. I would neither ignore them or stick up for yourself. people call names and say stupid things to make themselves feel better since they dont have a remotely interesting life. Dont worry about it you will figure out a way to get through it.
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stick up for yourself! Does it matter what anyone else thinks?
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EEEEEEWWWWWWWWWW!!! NASTY.... Hun you're 15!! you dont need to be goin that stuff. You need to live your liffee... That just down right ruined your life. All that guy wanted was to get laid and get pussy. Hun you gave it to him. Im freakin 15 and the most ive EVER done with a guy was MAKE-OUT!!!
Ignore it and let them see that it doesnt bother you.
If they tease you... Just be like..
Yeah so? What have you done with a guy? EXACTLY!!
Nothing so get off my back.!!!!
Christine
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Stick up for yourself. When you don't stick up for yourself people see that you low confidence and they can walk all over you. So stand up, I don't think your a slut. If your a slut then that guy is to.
<33 Brit
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If these are your friends that are calling you a slut then you need to do some new friend searching cause no real friend would ever call you a name trust me i've been there! you should up for yourself.you should never let anyone talk to you that way make see whow you really are and even if thats a slut than let it be who cares remmember dont change who you are for some nasty group of people.i dance ( grind) and that makes me a slut and when someone says something to me i ignore and keep on dancing right in front of them!! good luck
~ dancin diva~
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i saw you should just ignore it b/c its wat you want to do and those people shouldn't tell you otherwise
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Well..Just stick up for yourself...its what you wanted to do ..it isnt there choice to choose who they think you are an then turn you down...they all are just pissed becasue they didnt do it before you...So just fuck them i think if they were all true frineds to you they wouldnt mind...so hope i helped
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