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oh man being myself is wrong?
when i am with my friends i am really outgoing because im like comfortable with them you know? and also im a huge flirt. ok so people tell me that i think im the sh*t and i think im so cool and pretty and all of the boys love me. but thats not the case. what should i do because this is causing me a lot of trouble. it really sucks that people think that of me. please help. thank you ♥
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fuck them, you are the shit, don't listen to those people, theyre probably just jealous.
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your allowed to be whatever you want and i bet uyou most of them are jealous. they should get over themselves
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well maybe you should try to not be so flirty with everybody..and try not to be too self absorbed and i mean that in the nicest way.hope i helped - - <3 michelle
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A lot of girls don't like to see girls flirt with guys, just because it's rude especially if they like that guy. I say you get rid of the flirty habit before it turns into a problem. Then again you probably won't listen because this isn't what you want to hear. I'll use myself as an example. People consider me the most outgoing person in our group...but I'm engaged and I don't flirt with ANY guys ever. It's possible. It also makes you look more classy.
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I understand how you feel because some guys think that of me in which I don't care because I know I'm not that type of person.Anyways since it's causing you problems what you should do is tell then that there wrong,shouldn't be judging you, what could you do also is to talk to some of your friends to convince them that you're a nice person,don't think you're all that but tell then not to tell those people that you sent them it's better not to trust me on this so they don't start to think stuff they shouldn't thinking.another thing there's nothing wrong with flirting I mean that's natural it's good that you ask for help and any advice you could ask me for help whenever you like.
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They are just so jelous!Don't even listen to them.You are who you are,also don't change because of them. Just talk to them and tell them you can't change how you are.Also tell them that you don't they your the shit.You should be happy all the guys like you! DON'T CHANGE AT ALL ♥
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By the sounds it, they're just jealous. You have self-confidence, which is very hard to obtain, but once you do, very worth while. They're obviously jealous that you're outgoing, and they're not. Tell them that you don't think you're "all that", and that you're just happy with yourself. If they don't understand where you're coming from, that's their problem.
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Don't change for anyone. Confidence can come across as cockiness. These people who say that you think you're "all that" probably don't know you that well, or they're unhappy with themselves. If you're happy, then what's the problem? And some people are just flirtatious, which is okay if you know how to control it. So be careful. Other than that, if people are gunna hate let them. Just know you have friends who'll stick by you.
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Well i wouldn`t change how you are.. Maybe just watch what your doing.. Don`t like hit on guys that are taken or if you know one of your friends like them.. Just continue to be yourself.. [theres nothing worng with being yourself] ♥ Dez
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i think you should just tone it down i little bit and plus who cares what other people think about you... well hope i helped and if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox... XoXDoNnA
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