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anxiety


Question Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 9:08 pm

i think i might have a phobia of some sort...
before i have to give a speech or even read out loud i freak out. i have something like a panic attack. i cant breathe right, my mouth is dry, my voice shakes, i start trembling etc...
are there any medications i can take for this?


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PerfectlyFlawed answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 11:09 pm:
I think that is more of a psychological problem, I don't think medications will help a lot there. And I don't think it's anxiety either, anxiety is when you feel you need something but don't know what (people sometimes eat a lot because of this condition). Anyway, you're not the only one. For one, I am a pretty fast reader but when I have to read out loud I tend to studder a bit. And I'm also stage frightened.
My advice is you need a boost of self confidence, try to relax, maybe meditate.
If it still continues seek help froma psychologist.

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 1:20 pm:
Hey hun well i think you should visit a doctor !



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Annieisonfire answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:27 pm:
Herbal Tea always helps to calm you down. There are lots of other herbal remedies too, its worth lucking up actually, there are all kinds of things to help.

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secretcrushx3 answered Monday January 2 2006, 2:40 pm:
aw don't worry about it.. it's just stage fright it happen's to alot of people.. i used to get it to but all you have to do is focus 100% on what your doing and forget about the people infront of you or just don't look at them it helps to look past the crowd find a spot on the back walla to fucus on instead of the people there

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SWEETXLOVE answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:51 pm:
aw sweetie its just stage fright! alot of people get likes this including mee..just remember to take deep breaths and drink something before..like water?! you'll be fine..dont worry about it!!
♥ Kristen

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ASHL3YNICOL3 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:38 pm:
I think you maybe nervous...or might even have a phobia..i think the best thing to do is go to a doctor and talk to them about it. They should be able to help you.


♥ ASHLEY

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DancinCutie08 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:20 pm:
its stage fright and your shy even though you prob didnt think it before. if you keep doing it eventually you will get over it. as far as i know you cant take anything but drinking water helps and practicing alot

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orphans answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:11 pm:
stage fright.
Have a glass of water<3 Deep breaths.

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HayleyGraul answered Saturday December 31 2005, 4:22 pm:
its normal!!! its just fright to be in front of other...

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Darkhelp66466 answered Friday December 30 2005, 8:21 pm:
no its called stage firght. it may mean your are not confident or you are very nervous in front of other people. try practicing infront of friends or a mirro to make it more comfortable you also may not like a lot of attention

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YOURMOTHER_ISXAFARTLiCK answered Friday December 30 2005, 4:36 pm:
I advise you to go see your doctor for such help. It does sound like you do have some sort of a problem. The best and number one chioce is to go seek a doctor for this case.
&hearts;angela

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muffinbutt answered Thursday December 29 2005, 7:45 pm:
There are medications for really bad phobias but I don't think you necessarily need one. Many people are nervous about speaking in front of others. I suggest that before you go see a shrink about it, talk to your teacher and look at some web sites to find ways to relax and get over your problem on your own. My way is to look over the heads of the people I'm talking to, look at the wall instead, and imagine I'm alone in the room.

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Razhie answered Thursday December 29 2005, 6:59 pm:
I think you are jumping the gun a little here darling. Lots of people get nervous when they need to speak in front of others; according to a old survey people are generally more afraid of public speaking then they are of death.

Don't rush in for medication, although medication does exist for this sort of thing, it shouldn't be your first option, can have some nasty side effects and don't always address the real problem.

First try speaking to a counselor or teacher; they can be a great resource for some coping techniques. A Behavioral Therapist can also be a very valuable resource if you think you have a phobia, they will help you deal with it in your day to day life, not just try to medicate it away.

And lastly, consider this:

When people get scared they start to breath faster and shallower. That puts more oxygen in their body and makes them MORE nervous! Causes the heart rate to jump, and can also be a factor in the dry mouth and shaking. So control your breathing, slowly and deeply. You'll be surprised just how much calmer you feel if you count take three extremely slow breaths before you try to present.

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tasuki answered Thursday December 29 2005, 6:58 pm:
No, that's just stage fright. EVERYBODY gets it. Everybody. You just have to be confident.

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queenhearts answered Thursday December 29 2005, 6:45 pm:
This is for school, right? I would tell a teacher about it that you're having panic attacks or it's making you really uncomfortable. Suggest that you could give a speech to the teacher after school and get points? Or record it at home or something. Yeah...I have a similar problem too...

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