i think i might have a phobia of some sort...
before i have to give a speech or even read out loud i freak out. i have something like a panic attack. i cant breathe right, my mouth is dry, my voice shakes, i start trembling etc...
are there any medications i can take for this?
secretcrushx3 answered Monday January 2 2006, 2:40 pm: aw don't worry about it.. it's just stage fright it happen's to alot of people.. i used to get it to but all you have to do is focus 100% on what your doing and forget about the people infront of you or just don't look at them it helps to look past the crowd find a spot on the back walla to fucus on instead of the people there [ secretcrushx3's advice column | Ask secretcrushx3 A Question ]
SWEETXLOVE answered Sunday January 1 2006, 11:51 pm: aw sweetie its just stage fright! alot of people get likes this including mee..just remember to take deep breaths and drink something before..like water?! you'll be fine..dont worry about it!!
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ASHL3YNICOL3 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:38 pm: I think you maybe nervous...or might even have a phobia..i think the best thing to do is go to a doctor and talk to them about it. They should be able to help you.
DancinCutie08 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:20 pm: its stage fright and your shy even though you prob didnt think it before. if you keep doing it eventually you will get over it. as far as i know you cant take anything but drinking water helps and practicing alot [ DancinCutie08's advice column | Ask DancinCutie08 A Question ]
Darkhelp66466 answered Friday December 30 2005, 8:21 pm: no its called stage firght. it may mean your are not confident or you are very nervous in front of other people. try practicing infront of friends or a mirro to make it more comfortable you also may not like a lot of attention [ Darkhelp66466's advice column | Ask Darkhelp66466 A Question ]
muffinbutt answered Thursday December 29 2005, 7:45 pm: There are medications for really bad phobias but I don't think you necessarily need one. Many people are nervous about speaking in front of others. I suggest that before you go see a shrink about it, talk to your teacher and look at some web sites to find ways to relax and get over your problem on your own. My way is to look over the heads of the people I'm talking to, look at the wall instead, and imagine I'm alone in the room. [ muffinbutt's advice column | Ask muffinbutt A Question ]
Razhie answered Thursday December 29 2005, 6:59 pm: I think you are jumping the gun a little here darling. Lots of people get nervous when they need to speak in front of others; according to a old survey people are generally more afraid of public speaking then they are of death.
Don't rush in for medication, although medication does exist for this sort of thing, it shouldn't be your first option, can have some nasty side effects and don't always address the real problem.
First try speaking to a counselor or teacher; they can be a great resource for some coping techniques. A Behavioral Therapist can also be a very valuable resource if you think you have a phobia, they will help you deal with it in your day to day life, not just try to medicate it away.
And lastly, consider this:
When people get scared they start to breath faster and shallower. That puts more oxygen in their body and makes them MORE nervous! Causes the heart rate to jump, and can also be a factor in the dry mouth and shaking. So control your breathing, slowly and deeply. You'll be surprised just how much calmer you feel if you count take three extremely slow breaths before you try to present. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
queenhearts answered Thursday December 29 2005, 6:45 pm: This is for school, right? I would tell a teacher about it that you're having panic attacks or it's making you really uncomfortable. Suggest that you could give a speech to the teacher after school and get points? Or record it at home or something. Yeah...I have a similar problem too... [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
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