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Confused
I was seeing this guy named Austin. I was and still am absolutely crazy about him. Well the problem is that I've been a cutter for about a year or two now. Well my cousin Jeremy stayed over for the holidays and I cut once when he was around me. He called Austin and said I cut because he wasn't able to call me. So he broke up with me because he didn't want to get in a deep relationship and have me kill myself or something. Would that be considered true love or true hate? He also hasn't called me in about two days now, but maybe it's because the holidays. PLEASE HELP! I'M IN DESPERATE NEED OF ADVICE!
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I think you may need to consider getting professional help. As far as Austin is concerned it may be better that you left him alone. For some reason or another he is not able to handle the fact that you cut yourself. It does not make him a bad person or a good person it's just how he is. In the grand scheme of things you are more important then he is. If cutting yourself has begun to interfere with everyday life, it needs to be addressed. Do you think it is possible to begin dealing with another human being and their issues before you resolve your own? That is a question you have to answer yourself?
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well talk to him and describe how you feel and reay realy tlak to him tell him that he could help you get to recover becasue you need support to get through this not more reasons to be upset even if you guys dont get back together(not saying you wont) he needs to help you as a friend tell him u need his support
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I don't think he understands what cutting is all about. I really think that you should talk to him about your problem so he can understand you dont cut over him not calling you. And maybe you should talk to him about listening to your cousin. Your cousin has no buisness in your relationships unless he is invited in. Talking is the only way the problem can be resolved or you can realize that maybe he isn't a guy you should get so crazy over.
xoxo
ali
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cutting isn't the greatest thing to deal with. im not going to preach to you on how you shouldnt cut, because i was once in your position. im just going to tell you the reason why he dumped you is probably hes scared that if he does something wrong, you will hurt yourself even more.
the thing i really think you should do is go to a counselor or something. they really help a lot and maybe you could even get austin back once your not so depressed.
the best thing to do is to talk to austin once he cools down a bit and when you both have things figured out.
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Cutting is a pretty scary thing for people to deal with.
If you don't stop and he can't handle it then its best he go his own way.
You could tell someone and get some help for the problem. He may then decide to give you another chance.
I am sure he didn't break up to hurt you. He broke up to keep himself from being hurt. :)
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