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hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice.
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don t worry i am naerly 14 and i am only a 30 aa a and i have grow really tall but i think if your mum has little boobs then u do because my mum does and i have litle boobs
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You probably hear everyone grows at different ages and blah blah blah. I know how you feel when other people have these boobs and you don't! I can say that your a late bloomer. You will grow sooner or later. And when they grow, they grow! The first two years are the years when they grow. No woman is flat. They have a little and they normally wear no bra. If you want, you can wear a 32AA or a 32A. You won't fully fill in it but it gives you a little something. Even though you will have little boobs for a little while, it will grow. Being a "little girl" at the age of 13 is hard. It's going to be difficult to cope with this but you will go through this...one day after the another. I hope I didn't scare you!
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hey,
i know this is a huge problem for you im exactly like you i havent started my period but i do have boobs dont worry try playing with them as this helps the muscles grow make a list and measure them every week or so. dont worry this is natural your boobs may be affected to take after your mums and sisters do they have big boobs then you should too. some get a quick groth in boobs at 14 or 15 years. hope this helps.
AgonyK
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you should get the natural bra.. size A.. you can get them at mandees or look online if its really bothering you... i never really had a problem cause i got my period wen i was 10 .. and also maybe your family jsut doesnt have boobs.. look at your mom.. but yeah get the natural bra.. and then wear your normal bra over it .. it feels real and everything..
and actually NORMAL guys dont like girls for there booobs.. thats just shallow and dumb.. guys should like you for your personality .. guys who like you for your body and your face just want to fuck you cause.. it happened to me.. so be careful.. and guys arent that great.. truthfully most of them suck haha..
hope i helped
linds
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i knwo what kidn of situation youy are in excpet in a little diffrent form see im not flat i am HUGE and its not a good huge girl mostly think that they want big boobs but i undertsand and yea guys do liek boobs ppl often look at me and say that they want it but i here guys tlak about me and yea it hurts when guys say that my boobs are to big and if you havent started you period then there is your answer you will start to grow more mayeb when you are closer or actuly have started sorry if i didnt help wanted to tell you ur nto alone good luck
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okay well your 13 and you havent gone through puberty..that pretty much explains it all..are you like really skinny? cuz that could be the reason to..i mean dont worry you will grow for shure. i mean you said you see people that done have ne but thats rare..and i dont think thats gunna happen cuz usually when you have your period later in life..then you grow more then someone that would have had there period when they were like 12 or something. dont worry your fine..for rite now just live with it..itll change.
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well i dont know any miracle breast enlargment secrects but i think this might work only cause i seemed to notice it. eating alot of spices might help you with your little problem i rember when my breats statred growing big my mom said it was cause i was eating her spicy food alot. now im not saying its will work but give it a try. oh and someone one else told me drinking alot of milk works to. any way hope any of these work for you.
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hey there is nothing you can do you just have to let them come it likie that im 13 and i got no bobs and i have boyfriends it does not relly matter youll have them soon believe me i know im just turned 14 know and i still dont have do worry you will be fine cause people with boobs dont want aNY I KNOW MY FRIEND WISHES SHE HAD NONE
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Since you didn't start your period yet you will probably be a little flat, but when you do they will start to form..give it time. A water bra makes them look realer, but hope it doesn't break..now that would be embarrasing. And if you get a padded bra. don't like used it as soon at you get it. if they see your flat one day&&have some the next day would be totally obvious
good luck
♥britt
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Well first of all, I know you say 'its true' and you told me not to say it's not true.. but sometimes ( I'm not saying all the time.. just sometimes ) it isn't. Not ALL guys are into that. I've had boyfriends and guys like me and I have small boobs. The big boob thing is really starting to get old with guys. I mean, look at Paris Hilton. She has small boobs.. and she's gets lots of guys. Tara Reid..alot of guys I know liked her BEFORE she got the boob job. Now they all hate her. And who wants big boobs anyway? Whenever I see girls like that, I feel kind of bad because even though yes, they have guys surronded by them.. it's usually not because of them ; it's because of their boobs. So do you really want guys to like you just because of your boobs? I hope not. But yeah, get a water bra. It's basically just a bra where water goes instead of padding so if someone were to bump into you.. it'd feel real and not padded. Also, like you said.. you haven't even gotten your period yet, so whenever you will.. they will grow. You just have to wait. I hope I helped.
Love,
Mel <3
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honey your hormones just haven't kicked in yet. in time they will come i promise!
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big boobs make you look fat and guys yes hot emos have been telling me to my face that big boobs are going out of style. because this girl got fake ones and we were talking about it and yeah.
but get a water bra.
its a bra that is patted with water in the padded areas and if someone bumped into you they will acully feel real. and not fake like those huge padded ones.
trust me.
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first you need to realize that your worth to a man isnt in your bra size. at your age it may seem that way but understand there are many men that like flatter women. if you ask a man are you a butt boob or leg man alot say butt some say boobs and some say legs. all men like women are different. some like it all. so your friends may have developed faster than you but just think of it this way they will sag faster then you also. i am sure some girls envy you cause im sure you can wear some of the cuter tanktops without looking all slutty and pooping out. some actresses never had a boob job because like you they are pretty and place more enphasis on thier good qualities take sandra bullock, meg ryan, julia roberts, all are not so well endowed but have been known to be pretty to men.so dont be so hard on yourself . a waterbra is a bra that has water in the cup for a more natural feel then a padding.
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uhm, a water bra is a bra with water or gell padding so they look or feel more real, but they pop. sometimes during class. and that's really embarrasing. so is stuffing. just learn to be happy, they'll come eventually you're still young(ish) it'll be fine. the only worthwhile guys can look past small boobs and see the you inside, and that's what matters. and you don't have to start dating at 13 or even 14, wait untill you are comfy with it and find a guy you REALLY like.
BOTTOM LINE:
Love yourself and boys will love (or at least like) you, and boobs don't matter, your cup size is part of what makes you unique, and unique is what is REALLY beautiful, because you can get a million identical CZs, but it's the diamond that people are drawn to.
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One you get your period, (Lucky you dont have it yet, its not ALL that great) They will start to grow. Big boobs are not all that great ( Major hard clothes finding i consider you lucky). And Yes they will grow, You will have come your still young. A water bra just kinda like a padda bra only is looks more real.
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listen hear i my best friend was as flat as you say you are as soon a while after the period became a routine so did her growth and she's now from a small A to a 36B. I'm sure you notice that your missing hips and a waist line as well. So when you began with your period your body will start to form in a womanly shape. It depends also the family background you've had with either side if family. Don't worry about it that much. In my school their is a girl that is getting guys and she's not really gifted in the chest area. So but don't worry yourself and have fun cause once that those womanly things hit you you would want to have it stop. Basically and mostly the period anyway so. You'll be cool! Hope i helped, hun!!!!!!!!!!1
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Everybody grows at different rates. Most girls don't start growing breasts until they get their period. Be patient and enjoy the fact that you don't have to deal with things yet except for the voices in your mind.
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Since you haven't started your period yet, yeah, you are going to be flat. Once you get it, well technically a little before, your boobs will start to grow and you won't be completely flat. There is a chance that your boobs may not get to be very big once you do hit puberty though, so lets just say that they don't even though there's a chance that they will. If you decide to have kids your boobs will stay slightly larger than they were before your pregnancy. Padded bras aren't that noticeable. If someone bumps into you they won't be able to tell the difference, so if you want to go for that you should. You are right in that most guys your age care about boobs quite a bit, but you are not right that guys in general do and you're not right about guys as they start to get older. They're 13, guys that age care a lot about stuff that doesn't matter because they're immature. If you end up being size A or something it really is okay. It's actually better in most regards. You'll be sure that guys won't date you just for your boobs AND they won't start to sag when you get older. Saggy boobs are soooo unattractive and if you have big boobs, unless you get surgery, they will sag! I actually know a lot of guys around 18 years old and older that would actually prefer a girl with smaller boobs for that very reason! There are also guys that are younger than 18, yes even some your age, that will go out with you. You said yourself that you are pretty, that shows that you have a lot of confidence. Guys like confidence more than boobs and some guys your age will even like you for who you are over the size of your chest. They may be hard to find, but they are out there! I have really small boobs myself and even though I do feel like I've got nothing on some of those girls out there, I'm in a very good relationship with a really great guy. Sure he picks on me about it, but I know that he's joking and that he cares about it just as little as I do. So, my advice for you would be to keep up that confidence, buy some padded bras if you want, but remember that there's nothing wrong with you and you should accept and be thankful for who you are and what you have. Good luck! <3
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Hun i`m sorry..
Everybody developes at different times and were all in different shapes and sizes.. Don`t get a water bra my mom`s friend had one and it busted on her at work..Think how embarassing that would be.. I`d be in tears.. But not ALL guys look for girls with big breast some actually aren`t assholes and look for a good girl with an awesome personality.. There isn`t nothing you can do about this..Hun your still 13 some girls don`t get brest until their 15 or so..So you still have time.. Don`t freak out just yet.. ♥ Dez
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