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Too Formal?


Question Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 7:23 pm

For Christmas my bf got me this necklace. I can't say I am dissapointed, don't get me wrong, I am so happy he got me something! And it is beautiful. The only thing is that it is a little formal. It has dimaonds all over the chain and stuff (I don't think they are real though). But my question is, should I wear it everytime I see him? It is a little formal to wear with a normal outfit like jeans and a tanktop. I wore it to a New Years party and he noticed that I was wearing it cause he said, "oh you are wearing it!" and was playing with it. Should I wear it to school? It just seems a little formal. Do you think he would care if I didn't? I sorta wish he would have gotten me something a little casual.
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ImGoingUnder answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 5:50 pm:
you shouldnt wear it everyday but like two or three times out of the week

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ThisOneKidxo answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:46 pm:
I think you should wear it to school. I don't see why it would hurt to where it. But where it when you want to.Don't wear it constantly if you don't want to just to impress him.

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Annieisonfire answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:09 pm:
He got it for your use, not his! Wear it when you want to, and when it is appropriate for your outfit. If he has a problem with that then tell him thats its for special occasions.

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LoveNJstyle answered Monday January 2 2006, 12:21 am:
show him that you think it's special and only wear on special occasions like anniversaries, formals, special dates...i don't think he would mind. <3

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tasuki answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:16 pm:
I wouldn't wear it to school. The clasp might get broken and it may fall off. You should only wear it on special occasions. If he asks you can say that it's just really, really special and you don't want to wear it on any old day with your regular un-special clothes. It makes a lot of sense to me. He should understand.

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bagdad answered Sunday January 1 2006, 9:12 pm:
Heh, he's a guy, doubt he cares all that much, just don't never wear it, cause then he might think you don't like it

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DancinCutie08 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:41 pm:
i dont know about school but when you see him it would be nice. i think really those kinda neclaces look really nice with either like a plain white or black sorta dressy t shirt and jeans. i recomend it for like partys and stuff but not really school

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Beloved_x_Eyes answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:35 pm:
No. Dont think you have to wear it all the time! Its a gift, not a commitment. Keep it for special occasions, like a formal dance at school? Let him know its so special that it should only be worn on special occasions! Trust me, hes a guy - he probably wont care. Plus, if you wear it all the time, people might start to notice. And if it really IS formal, then you probably shouldnt wear it to school or anything like that or you'll look to dressed up. And it probably clashes with jeans and a tee Im guessing? Hope this helps.

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orphans answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:34 pm:
Were when it matched your outfit.
I doubt he expects you to wear it all the time.

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chickenfriedsage answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:32 pm:
Times it's probably not a good idea to wear your new necklace (which, by the way, is probably not made of real diamonds).

-water-skiing
-gym class
-when conducting drug transactions in questionable neighbourhoods

Otherwise, go for it. If it doesn't match your outfit, then don't wear it. That makes it more special when you DO wear it.

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wjpool answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:29 pm:
i think maybe u shoudl were it alout maybe not every day but it seems liek it means alout to him if u would so hope i helped

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stillstella answered Sunday January 1 2006, 8:27 pm:
I don't think you should wear it with casual clothes on a daily basis. But wear it with casual stuff once and a while so he will know that you do like it.

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