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im 16f and all my friends go out with lads...but i seem the only one not 2...i havent had my first kiss yet and that makes me feel more down and like that no one would ever want me (yes i no its sounds stupid but thats how i feel) i talk to lads but they dont seem interested or anyone who does like me are ugly and i dont like them or there too young...
is there a way too make lads like me or talk to me more often so they start to like me ?
(sorry if its confusing) xox
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Guys normally go for girls who are outgoing and bold. They like a girl who can get involved in things and be part of something. Maybe if you try getting more involved with things, you will find guys who share the same interests as you - and they'll be single! You might meet a guy you never knew existed that goes to school with you. Don't try to hard to where you aren't yourself - always be yourself - that is honestly the best advice anyone could give you even though you've probably heard it a million times before.
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Bleieve me hun, lads are intereseted (thats their purpose in life as mammals). You could try being more outgoing. Guys don't expect a girl to just come and talk to them, they usually expect to make the effort themselves; so think about how much a guy would appreciate it if we didn't have to go through that social obstacle. Also, dont be shallow. Try to find something you like in some of those not-so-desirable lads. Give them a fair chance, you're not likely gonna find the lad with looks, humor, and money, so you gotta make some sacrifices. Good luck.
PS: Dressing slutty works too (last resort).
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Don't feel bad. Everyone feels like you at one point in time. You deserve someone that will break apart from the crowd of boys that like the "hottest" girl or the "most popular" girl just to be with you. And, honey, let's get something straight: you are NOT ugly. You are absolutely beautiful the way you are and nothing will change that. You are a unique individual and there is some boy out there that thinks you are the prettiest girl in the world. So, the answer to your original question: Every single guy is different. Therefore, there is no one way to get them all to like you. But, the best way to get guys to *notice* you is to BE YOURSELF. Be brave and start a conversation with a cute guy. Be confident: hold your head up high and look people straight in the eye. Any guy will fall in love with a person like that, trust me.
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i am only 14, but i haven't had my first kiss yet, and you deserve yours with someone who truly likes you. Do stuff to make you feel better, like getting your hair and nails done. Confidence does make guys notice you. put more attitude into your everyday life! Don't be artificial though! Please tell me if my advice helped you!
M.J.
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