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Do I wait???


Question Posted Monday July 17 2006, 10:06 pm

ok..

so theres this guy whos liked me since 7th grade or w/e. and he wants to go out. but just today he said " well im only 16, i wanna experience a little more before i go out with you because i have a feelings we'd go out a long time, we have that chemistry" i said ok fine like a dumbass.. then i said id wait for him and give him time..

SHOULD I WAIT!?!?!??! or just be like either me or not.


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x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:20 pm:
he probably just got scared because he realizes that if he goes out with you now,then he's lost his "freedom" for awhile.
he probably jsut wants to be able to flirt around,so i think you should do the same.
just have some fun,and get to know other people.
if/when the time comes for you two to go out,you will both feel like you have looked at all the choices.
hope i helped.
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clechauri answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 2:16 pm:
I think you should go with you or not or just date other people until you are both ready

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lookitslorin answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 1:50 pm:
WEll, If he wants to 'expirence' so much things without you, then obviously he dosent want to be with you just yet. Why not expirence these things with you? Although saying, "ok fine" wasnt the best thing to say. We can still fix this. Call him up or meet him in person and see what all he wants to 'expirence.' If you dont like these answers, explain to him that you dont, and why you dont. Dont just say, I dont like that, then leave. Say I dont like that because... what ever your reason might be. Hope I have helped. :]

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M.J. answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 1:33 pm:
I would never ever ever ever wait for someone, unless he had to go visit family or go to war, or something that means something. he's treating you like you aren't a person but a pet. you are a living human being, don't you ever take that from no one! You deserve better than that low-life player, and you should tell him so!
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M.J.

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kick_me answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 3:58 am:
no oh my god you should even have to think twice about it you call him up and tell him that your not going to wait for him to fool around with other girls so he wont miss them while your going to be with him....that like a guy going ok im going to marry you but since your the only woman im going to ever sleep with after we get married i just wanna sleep with a couple more weman so i dont feel bad that i married you...if i like a guy and he liked me and said that to me id first laugh then spit in his face letting out all kinds or disses you shouldnt even want him anyore you go find a better guy that wont want any other girl but you

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YeahhhBoyyy answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 1:16 am:
i think you should tell him either me or not. and if he really liked you then he would already be with you instead of making up ridiculous excuses. seriously, that excuse doesnt sound believable- so its up to you to decide but, you need to talk to him deffinatley.

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Michelley answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 12:47 am:
if he doesnt want to be with you, then dont wait for him. if he really likes you as much as he says he does, then he would want a relationship. to me, it sounds like he wants to "experiance" hooking up with other girls before he gets tied down to one. player. dont wait..find someone hotter and sweeter and more LOYAL and HONEST then him
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!

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x_woah_me answered Monday July 17 2006, 11:24 pm:
If he likes you, he would go out with you. He doesn't want to hurt you, so instead he put you on the sidelines. It's honestly up to you. Do you want to take that chance and wait for him, and even have the idea of him NOT liking you after the wait, or do you want to move on & find someone who wants to be with you right here and right now ? Thats up to you, but my choice :: I wouldn't sit around and wait for someone who doesnt care about me enough to be with me.. I'd get out there and find me a real guy :]
♥ me

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caramella answered Monday July 17 2006, 11:20 pm:
this guys lying to you or actually,he cant even lie RIGHT.cmon what the hell does experience more mean??ill tell you!it means get you to like him more and more till youre desperatley in luv with him then hell say oh im SORRY im not ready yet and bring you down.dont wait for noone and find someone eles

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