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how do i get my boyfriend to call when he says he`ll call .. when he is at home he calls but when he is out with people he just doesnt call when he says he will.. please help
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Ok, he is a guy, so be glad that he calls at all. Haha. It is great that he calls when he is at home, but you cant expect him to call every single moment. When he is with his friends, he is probably thinking about you non-stop, but he is having fun with his friends as well. So, just chill with the WHY DIDNT YOU CALL ME? stuff, because if you get too demanding, your boy will leave you. Trust me, I would know from expirence. Lol, Hope I have helped :]
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Honestly, if he cared he would call. They don't lie when they care. Maybe he's out with his other girlfriend, which is why he can't call you. Or maybe he is embarrassed to be calling you. Maybe he's embarrassed OF you. Either way, lying is an issue that will turn into a BIGGER one if it isn't stopped now. Tell him if he SAYS he is going to call, then he needs to call. Simple as that. If he doesn't listen, dump him.
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Wouldnt it be kinda rude if you were with a bunch of friends and in the middle of being with them you had to call your other friends because you said you would call? It might not be like that but it could be so dont take that out of the question.
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Honey, as easy as it would be to control our boyfriends, its not possible. They have minds of their own and will decide for themselves, so you can't make your boyfriend call you. Just tell him that it upsets you when he doesn't call and ask him to try to think of you more when he's out. On the other hand... do you think you might be asking him to call too often? During the first stages of a relationship, yes, most couples call each other twice or maybe even three times or more a day, but after a few weeks, don't expect him to call more than twice a day.
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