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I'm Christian. I'm 5'3 i have dark brown eyes. I love to be with my family and friends. I enjoy life to the fullest. I love to go to church and listen to the word of God. And i love to give advices. The way i give an advice is what i would do if i was is that persons shoes so i hope to here from you.
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My best friend is just like me exact! i mean we say all the same thing at the same time and everything! she taly alsome! we do everthing to gether.Do u think well stay best friends? (link)
If you guys keep the trust and the faithfulness and don't lie to each other i think your friendship will be forvever. I hope i answered you question


im 16/f and this guy is 14 i know age difference but i dont care..

i started to kinda like this guy before he got a girlfriend. we always flirted and he would touch me and we would wrestle and i would get on top of him but then when i find out he asked this girl out that he liked i was kinda..heartbroken (link)
hey i know what you mean but for noone get hurts try to keep you distant. But it looks like he likes you too. You need to be careful because it sounds like he has feelings for both of you. But really my advice will be talk to him about. and you never know you must just e right for each other tell me if this helps ok By the way if you want to get over him keep your mind busy go out with your friends always do something and try not to listen to love songs because that will make it worse. I hope this helps


See this girl I just became friends with at the begin of summer wants me to break her up her boyfriend whos a jerk. But the thing is, i used to like the boy, and he knew it. I'm afriad if i do that, he'll think im lying or I want him or something. but I dont like him anymore. Also, I dont want to do it. I dont think I should be the one to do it. But I dont think she'll do it and he's an ass. Should I do it or should I just ask him to talk to her? (link)
You should just tell your friend to talk to him herself that is my best advice for you. Because is not your problem to solve it. But also the best thing you can do is be there for your friend no matter what


this is for strong Christians mostly to answer. Is their any Godly way to relieve sexual tension without sinning when your single? I'm a strong, young Christian girl but imma teenager so I have raging horemones. I used to masturbate then I stopped then it went to dry humping. now I'm trying to stop it all but its hard. Is there any way to de stress? (link)
I'm also a Christian girl and is normal what your feeling. And my advice is listen to a lot of worshipping song and while you listening to it tell God to help you and to take everything out of you that is not him. And believe it will work for sure. I had your same problem and believe listening to worshipping songs and praying while the worshipping song is on it will work for sure. Tell me how it went .I hope i have helped


I've been on birth control now for about a year. My boyfriend and I just recently had unprotected sex, without pulling out. I'm pretty good with taking my pill every night around the same time but there were two times during this cycle that I had ended up taking it the next day, including that night we had sex. I'm on the placebo pills right now and still no period. Could I be pregnant? (link)
It is a possiblity that you are pregnant and you should be very careful with the pills because they can harm you. I hope i hepled you


Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.

-- Danielle (on kellys username) (link)
Look be truth to yourself. Don't hook up with all these other guys because that would make you look like a whore going from guy to guy. And don't rush things between you and Ross if is for you he will come to you himself but if he doesn't is because he wasn't for you and the person for you hasn't come yet. I know sometimes the single life is not that fun. But is better for you to have him as a friend better than having as nothing don't you think. i hope i helped you


i had this guy friend. lets say his name is john. and me and him were best friends and of course we fell for each other. and finally dated which i was kinda a jerk to him for a while there. and i broke up with him, and he stopped talking to me for the longest time =[.
finally recently weve started talking since i got my lincense i hung out with him alot lately.
but im afriad im starting to fall for him again and at first my plan was to jus start being friends with him again. but i think i like him more then a friend and i know he still likes me and wuold take me back the guestion is idk if i would hurt him again and ruin the friendship. =[
im kinda confused and idk if i need to slow things down a bit before we get our selves in some weird times again.
what do you say about this? (link)
My advice to you is to take things slow and don't rush them and let things be. And if your not very sure about your feeling towasrd him don't go out with him and hurt his feelings again. So, just be friends for now. i hope i helped


I have a huge, ugly pimple on my face and I need it gone by tomorrow. I rarely ever get pimples and when I do, they are easy to get rid of, but not this one! Are there any at home remedies I could try? I have a very important event to go to tomorrow and I can't have this thing on my face! (link)
I will really recommned you proactive it does work and that's what i use for my pimples and since i use it i don't have not one pimple on my face try it trust me. I hope you take my advice and get it


((this is for my friend named chelsea)
well, theres this guy on my brothers baseball team, and hes really hott and sweet. the only problem is that he is 10-and i am 13. what do i do? is it okay if i still like him or is it too weird? (link)
Take it from me get someone your age better. Because there are somethings he doesn't understand that you do. And by the way is ok if you think his hot. But don't go out with him and get someone your age and you guys will understand each other people. i hope this can help you


im a pretty supportive person when it comes to my friends. when they need to talk i listen, when they ask for advice i give it to them, my opinion etc. but when i need to talk sometimes they wont listen. i do talk alot but im not a bad listener and im always their for my friends when they need me to be. recently i had a really hard week and i NEEDED to talk to a friend of mine, but every time i tried calling or iming etc. she wouldnt answer. then i commented her on myspace and she freaked out on me! she was like " sometimes people just dont want to talk when theyre mad, your not the only one w/ problems!" and i didnt have a clue what she was talking about! if she needed to talk she could have just said something and i would have listened to her while she talked it all out, but when i needed her she wasnt there for me. am i over reacting, or is she in the wrong? PLEASE HELP! (link)
YOu know what seriously your friend doesn't care about you she only cares about herself. You need to stop thinking about other people so much and think about your feelings too. Because your important too. And if you need someone to talk to even though you don't know me you can talk to me about anything. Consider me your new friend. So i hope this could help you a little and if you have any question don't doubt to come to me or better said write to me about anything. And your a good friend there should be more people like you bye And she is wrong in every way


My boyfriend went with this best friend for his 18th birthday to a strip club..i feel kind of pisssed and disgusted..is this ok to feel this way or am i goin overboard? idk i just feel kind of uncomfortable to think that naked women are gunna be all over him.. (link)
You know what it is normal to feel jealous i will feel the same way. But don't worry about it is just a strip club and at the end of the day he will always be your.But if your argue with him about it and go overbroad he might just go away so try to maintain a low temper and don't go od ok I hope this advice helps you. But Believe I know what you mean and is normal to be jealous


I am a female and I am a virgin. If my boyfriend has cum or precum on his hand and fingers me, can I become pregnant? I really need to know this as soon as possible! Please help! (link)
Listen, I'm sorry if I offened you I didin't mean it for you to get offened. I just want you to know that even though your a virgen. But by him putting his finger inside of you that's nothing but the reason I think you might get pregnant because his cum is on his hand and fingers. So, please forgive me i just wanted to help you but i didn't express myself very good. So, I hope this time i give you the right advice.Ok here it is I think that yes that you can get pregnant. And sorry one more time


Can the pill cause you to lose appetite or gain weight?? thanks! (link)
To tell the truth i don't think you should take pills to loose weight because they can harm your body in a bad way. The healthies way to loose way if you want to is to eat fruit or a salad in the morning and don't eat after 7pm because is the food that you eat in the night that makes you a belly. And you can eat whatever you want but carefully. For example you can eat pizza once in a blue moon but not all the time. I hope my tips works for you. I hope i helped


15 Female

Last night I was at a party and made out with this guy (hes 18) four times. The thing is, that was my first kiss.. but I think I did pretty well. Anyways, he started with his mouth open which was sooo awkward, but then again we were both kinda drunk. Is it normal to begin with fullout french kissing.. no closed mouth kiss before?

Thanksss.. :) (link)
Hey girl it depends of the person. Everyone is different in their own way. People kiss different ways. Me my first kiss was with my mouth close and then open. But like I said before people have differnet ways of kissing.


ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long (link)
Girlfriend, first of all stop thinking about other people. I'm sorry but that ex of yours can't be telling you who to date or not to date. Girl, if you really like this guy go out with because if you don't you will regret it. And about your ex again if he cares about you he will let you be happy and move on with his life and still be your friend because there is nothing wrong from you two being friends. I hope this could help you with your decision


Ok so im in dance and i have been for 10 years but like i am fat and and like a dance at least 8 hours a week and i was wondering y am i not getting skinnier and i do sit ups to get rid of my fat so what am i don't wrong? (link)
Keep dancing like always ok.Because that is you inspiration. Now eating a lot of junk food is not going to help you even though you will excersice after. Try to get as much as thesize of you hand. But eat little not that much. And don't eat every one hour wait and then eat. Also, what i do is when i eat a wait a few mins.To drink something that way the food will be able to digest well and won't make me a big stomach

I hope this tips helped


Okay, so, im 15, and im going into my first year at high school. Its summer and there is this soar program (summer school basically) the introduces me into algebra. The thing is, I am like majorly terrified! what will high school be like once the year starts? will the people be nice? the school is like a maze, im gonna get lost for sure, I am so scatter brained! What should do? Does any one have advice for starting the school year or surviving the treacherous mayhem of algebra and puzzling world I am now cursed with? (link)
Hey,
I started high school the same age has you. Believe me is nothing people try to freak you out. Is almost the same thing as middle school but the only thing that is different is that the school is bigger. When you go you are going to love it. And by the way you will meet a lot of different people and you will get to know yourself better


I hope this helps


Okay, theres this guy, that i talk to on myspace, and we go to school togeather, and i talk to him there to.


ANYWAY, whenever we talk, we always end up "fighting" but its SOOOO fun to fight with him, and i just love annoying him, and he's the same way with me.

My friends say that this is flirting, but i dont see how it is. Cause were just pretty much arguing...


Anyway, I really like him, and i'm not so sure if he likes me, but he can be a real jerk.

So, the quistion is, should i go after him, even though he seems to only like to use me to argue with?

~Melissa~ (link)
You know what Meli you should try to get ideas if he likes you. For example, when you talk to him have intimite question or personal question however you want to call it. But anyways ask him personal question. Ask him questions you know he wouldn't tell other people and keep it to himself and if he tells you little by little about his life and the way he grew up and things like that you are in. Then try to stop the agruing even though it might be fun jejejj. And try to once in a while hug him and just be a little flirty with him and if he acts the same with you. You will know right away if he likes you bACK OR NOT


i HOPE THIS COULD HELP YOU


it was my friends bday today but im not gonna see her until monday so thats when im gonna give her her gift. shes turning 14 and shes also leaving for overnight camp on tuesday does anyone have any ideas of what i could get her???
i was thinking of getting her a gift card or something but idk.

thanks (link)
That wouldn't be a bad idea that way she can get whatever she wants with a gift card.


Ok, my boyfriend is BI. I really like him and stuff like that. We haven't been dating long, and people are already making jokes about me, him, and his sexuality. I'm getting sick of it. And I need advise other than, ignore them. Because no offense, but it dosen't work. Thanks in advance. :] (link)
No I'm not going to tell you to ignore it because your right it doesn't work. You need to be strong and if you care about him you will defend him and let other people know his more than that


I hope i helped





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