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this guy that i really really like
ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long
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Girlfriend, first of all stop thinking about other people. I'm sorry but that ex of yours can't be telling you who to date or not to date. Girl, if you really like this guy go out with because if you don't you will regret it. And about your ex again if he cares about you he will let you be happy and move on with his life and still be your friend because there is nothing wrong from you two being friends. I hope this could help you with your decision
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Hi, if you want to date this guy then go ahead and do it. Just because your ex doesn't want you to, at the end of the day that's what he want's but it's what you want. It sounds as though your ex just doesn't want you dating this guy because he's jelouse or some other reason. That's his problem, he doesn't control what you want and if he's saying that he won't have anything to do with you if you go out with this guy, then he is in away black mailing you. I think he's all for himself and if you want to date this guy then do it. You don't need a friend who tells you what to do anyway. Daniel.
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wow you thought about everyone execpt yourself...i think you should tell the gy that you currently like at the moment that you broke up with him because your first ex was being harsh and you were afriad he wouldnt be his friend anymore...and if he asks you out go out with him i mean you old ex isnt going to hold a grudge against you everytime you go out with someone you like and tell him to back off his he bothers you or tell the guy you like that he bothers you and im sure he will talk to him
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well its really all up to you but he probabley likes you. why else would he care. but then again some guys just dont care about who you like and all....especailly an ex. soo talk to him and see how he really feels. mabye if you dont like him tell him that and tell him you want to be just friends and really friends. also talk to the other guy and tell him how HIS friend feels. mabye they can also work something out. well i hope i helped.
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Hey,
i've read your problem and i have some opinions that i'd like to share with you.
First of all, this new guy seems really nice and he loves , and cares about you and treats you in a really good way and tells you all those great stuff. Moreover, you also like this guy, and you really want to be with him and to go out with him.
Second of all, your ex is exactly how you call him, he's your EX. and that means that you once loved each other, but things didn't work out ,so you broke up and each one of you moved on with his life,and then you say that because you are the one who broke up with your ex, that he really hated you since then. And so suddenly, when he found out that you are about to date a new guy,he got so obssesive and over protective, and doesn't want you to be with anyone else. Who the hell is he to tell you what to do or who to be with?
Third of all, you are totally absolutely definitely completely wrong,because you are allowing him to involve himself in your relationships and to tell you what to do. For heaven sake, he is supposed to be your ex boyfriend, and you fought with him for whatever reason it was, you didnt mention, but it was probably something that messed up your life, and thats why you didn't want him anymore, and you broke up with him, and you probably also regretted ever being with him. And now what, you are suddenly back with him, and you can't dare give up the 'NEW' friendship between you and him.
There is someone out there ,who loves you and cares about you and is crazy about you, therefore, you should take advantage of that and hold on tight to it, and love him back, and agree to date him and be with him.
Because that is the kind of guy that deserves an incredibly terrific girlfriend as you, so be with him, and if your ex fights with you and tells you that he will not talk to you agian, then tell him this" who are you to even come and talk to me and call me on the phone every night and hang out with me and do this and that after what happened between us and to our relationship" and just turn your back on him and walk off with that new guy, who deserves a better treatment from you, so instead of wasting your time and wasting a fantastic chance as being with someone who adores you, and wasting it all on an obssesive over protective freak,then make a move and make it with the new guy that you love and that you want to be with,and your ex is your past, but now we are in the present and the past is simply forgotten, because we do things and we know people, but then sometimes there comes a time when we have to break up these things and move on forward and not backwards.
So please consider what i said, and i hope i really helped you, and if there is anything else that i could advise you with, or if you are facing any problems, troubles, worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me. :)
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Wow your ex sounds like a jerk so why you compromising your happiness to suit him.He also sound extremely jealous of you being happy ever thought of it that you and this guy sound sweet together and dont let your ex stand in the way of that kay to deserve to be happy.You decide ex as friend or your happiness ?
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This new guy sounds really sweet, and you quite clearly like him back. =]
your ex however does seem slightly obsessive and you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason, he may be ok as a friend but not a boyfriend.
you must know if you like someone or not?! it feels like if he cant have you then no one else can have you and hes keeping you waiting and playing on your emotions.
If he was a true friend to you both, he would accept the fact that you two like each other and want to be together.
i hope everything works out for you
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who the hell is this guy to tell you what to do?um is he your husband?noo....so you can be with whoever you want and your ex cant do anything about it...go to the guy you really like and if your ex gets pissed tell him whats between us is PAST and OVER.you cant stop yourself from liking this dude just to not hurt your ex's feelings?cmon honestly if he liked another girl and you were his ex and all would he leave her for you?????i dont THINK SO!!!
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ok well if you like this guy, you cant let your ex get in the way. i understand that you dont want to lose your ex as a friend but he sounds like a very posessive person. if you like the other guy then you should go out with him, your ex needs to deal with the fact that your not his anymore. if your ex is realy your friend now then he should be happy for you, and if he cant mannage that then you dont need him as a friend anyway.
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