Um hey i'm Jayde, nothing in the world fazes me, ask me anything and i will do my best to answer it, if i don't have a clue, i will at least look for someone else you can ask...
lifes too short to be spent worrying for ages, and a problem shared is a problem halved
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What can I do to be more well-liked?
I don't want to change who I am, I just want
to bring out a more positive side of me :) (link)
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try to envision your self as a bigger person, pretend to be about 17 foot tall in your head, and you will feel more confident and sure of yourself.
this works for me whenever im feeling a bit negative.
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ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long (link)
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This new guy sounds really sweet, and you quite clearly like him back. =]
your ex however does seem slightly obsessive and you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason, he may be ok as a friend but not a boyfriend.
you must know if you like someone or not?! it feels like if he cant have you then no one else can have you and hes keeping you waiting and playing on your emotions.
If he was a true friend to you both, he would accept the fact that you two like each other and want to be together.
i hope everything works out for you
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i love to compliment my boyfriend and make him feel good, but sometimes i run out of things to say! what kind of compliments do guys like most? and how do you let them know how attractive you think they are without simply using words such as hot? i know it should be easy but i wanna know what kind of compliments make guys feel the BEST and how i should word things (link)
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Hey,
firstly you are so right in not using the word "hot", it sounds so fake, and not very genuine.
if you run out of things to say...maybe he doesnt deserve to be complimented at that time?
wait until he tries something new, a new shirt or aftershave or something? and he feels not so confident about it, thats when he'll appreciate it more..
think about what you say in your head before you say it, and ask yourself whether or not you would appreciate it being said to you,
not sure whether this will help but good luck all the same...
take care x x
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I hate stereotyping! And people are always calling me goth or emo, (im considered emo). But I hate it when I'm called gothic. They don't know whether I'm with God or not! I wish they'd all just stop judging! I don't know what else to do. I always just get a deep voice and say "be careful what you wish for", gothics seek revenge". LOL. j/k. But what could I say to get them to stop???
Thanx
~KAYLA~ (link)
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"Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable
that we have to alter it every 6 months."
yup i stole that from Oscar Wilde
but thats what i think that people have to remember every time people try and label you, you can bet that in a few months it will all be different.
Also labeling yourself as emo is a complete misconception, unless of course you know the origins of emotive hardcore?
take care x
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Well, my situation is as followed.
I have two best friends. One of which I dated, and we broke up. Now my other best friend whom is a girl, always thought my boyfriend was hot and lusted after him.
I trusted both of them completely, and not even a month after we broke up they had sex. Well, If one of them would of told me - it would of been nice but I found out thru HER ex boyfriend, and only because there was a pregnancy scare.
I feel betrayed because she promised she would never do anything with him, and I am still in love with him and she knew that when she did what she did.
He's away at basic in the army, and I had to deal with her. Her response was, "It's in the past, I cant do anything about it now." and her explanation for the event happening was that He started it, and she said (I quote) "I'm a ho, It's in my blood. Someone wants to hit this, I let them!"
I don't know how to deal with this situation. I didnt deck her like I wanted to, but I stayed over at her house and chilled that day because I wasn't sure how to react. Now she calls and I don't want to anwser her phone calls...how do I deal with this?
She seems to feel no remorse for it.. wants to be friends still..
But I know I can't just go on without having my say in it or else I will always feel bitter.
Yes it's in the past but the consequences are NOW.
I need help right away!
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Thats really harsh, and i think you are totally justified in ignoring her for the time being,
but then its not healthy to keep your feelings towards her bottled up for much longer, but that would just be silly for me to say calmly talk to her how you feel, although you could try?
But by being aggressive and hostile will make you feel better in the short term. but when you realise that they both are not worth it, you will feel worse.
at least you can appreciate it's in the past and that nothing you can do can change, which is really positive
if i were you though ,i would seriously question how good a friend she really is? and is she worth you making an effort towards her? and to be honest same goes with your ex. who quite conviently is away.....
take care and i hope it all works out for you
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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right? (link)
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Making sure you are relaxed and feel utterly comfortable with each other will really really help.
Foreplay is a good way to help put you in the mood, not just "fingering" and a "handjob"...
Try lube if all else fails =]
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ok...here is how it is...i used to be a happygolucky child then my cousin changed and i acted cool like her but i was so young people thought it was cute...but now i am wearing pink clothes...listening to green day....and hard rock!!!!!! what is wrong with me? and sometimes i want to dye my hair black somtimes i come to my sences and say ..no i would look bad with it...then i turn goth and get moody...then another i am happy sweet loving child..which should i choose..and why am i going through this because i need to make a decision because i am getting new clothes and it would be stupid to be totally opposite..my friends think i am weird because i always have opposite feelings one day and another..goth..prep..punk...prep..punk..goth...it changes...for me i prefer to wear goth clothes but be quiet...but cheeerful i want to have different attitudes ..but then all this mixture is to much...plz..for the sake of pete help me! (link)
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haha this isn't a brilliant answer, but i used to be exactly the same, one day i was obsessed with Justin Timberlake, and feeling all confused because at the same i discovered Kurt Cobain and Marilyn Manson, so i experimented with dying my hair black (yes, it did look horrible on me) and dressed in black and was classed as a goth, to be honest i needed to do that to get it out of my system and experiment, and to found out where i feel most comfortable with myself. now i still listen to the same music i listen to three years ago which is mainly metal but dress how i want to, normally it's jeans and a t-shirt Don't worry about what other people or whether you think they will think your hair will look bad black.Or dont feel like you have to "belong" into a certain group such as "emo" or "goth". because they really are pathetic.
Sorry this doesn't really have a solution, but i wanted to let you know i felt the same.
take care x
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