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what do guys wanna hear? this question is for guys but anyon


Question Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 4:22 am

i love to compliment my boyfriend and make him feel good, but sometimes i run out of things to say! what kind of compliments do guys like most? and how do you let them know how attractive you think they are without simply using words such as hot? i know it should be easy but i wanna know what kind of compliments make guys feel the BEST and how i should word things

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Jayde answered Thursday July 13 2006, 2:21 pm:
Hey,
firstly you are so right in not using the word "hot", it sounds so fake, and not very genuine.
if you run out of things to say...maybe he doesnt deserve to be complimented at that time?
wait until he tries something new, a new shirt or aftershave or something? and he feels not so confident about it, thats when he'll appreciate it more..
think about what you say in your head before you say it, and ask yourself whether or not you would appreciate it being said to you,
not sure whether this will help but good luck all the same...
take care x x

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lastlyMe answered Thursday July 13 2006, 12:52 pm:
I say "i like being around you" out of nowhere, really randomly. Random little complements are the best. Smiles are good too, I smile all the time when i'm with him... but not the scary smile. Just a relaxed smile (:

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I_am_Neo answered Thursday July 13 2006, 12:45 pm:
A simple kiss is good enough. It's a guys job to complement the ladies, not the other way around. Just give him a kiss and tell him you love him, all that kinda stuff. We don't like complements.

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Lola answered Thursday July 13 2006, 10:40 am:
Hey,
I read your problem, and i have a point of view i'd like to share with you.
Guys hate girls who go around and tell them that he looks nice ,hot, sexy...blah blah blah. Its like your complimenting him just so he wouldn't leave you. Did HE ever compliment you? or at least, does he ever compliment you as much as you do to him? I mean .. sometimes there are times when a compliment should be said, but you can't go around everytime you see him and tell him fake compliments that you don't really mean, just to attract him to you. Instead, you can go out with him, have fun ,show him that you love him, make out with and do what any girl does.But if you keep complimenting him, he'll get kind of annoyed, and he'll notice that you have complimenting a little to much .
Besides, i am telling you this, because there were two guys that i knew, and i thought that if i wanted to attract them , then i should just keep complimenting them, and later on, they got really annoyed how everytime i see them, i just point out something good about them, and they hated me and kept making fun of me.

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Lola answered Thursday July 13 2006, 10:39 am:
Hey,
I read your problem, and i have a point of view i'd like to share with you.
Guys hate girls who go around and tell them that he looks nice ,hot, sexy...blah blah blah. Its like your complimenting him just so he wouldn't leave you. Did HE ever compliment you? or at least, does he ever compliment you as much as you do to him? I mean .. sometimes there are times when a compliment should be said, but you can't go around everytime you see him and tell him fake compliments that you don't really mean, just to attract him to you. Instead, you can go out with him, have fun ,show him that you love him, make out with and do what any girl does.But if you keep complimenting him, he'll get kind of annoyed, and he'll notice that you have complimenting a little to much .
Besides, i am telling you this, because there were two guys that i knew, and i thought that if i wanted to attract them , then i should just keep complimenting them, and later on, they got really annoyed how everytime i see them, i just point out something good about them, and they hated me and kept making fun of me.

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