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He has a girlfriend....
Ok so there is this guy I like. Lets call him...Mark.
Well my friend introduced me to Mark and when I was talking to him on AIM my friend yells that he thinks I'm pretty.
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Well after that we started talking more and more. Then later that night he told me that he has a girlfriend. It was fine with me because I was thinking of really getting together with him.
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Then he was saying how he liked me and how he wanted to be with me but, then the next day all he could talk about was his girlfriend and how much she likes him and all of that.
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I can't help but feel somewhat jealous.
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I really don't know what to do. I do like him even after I am trying not to but it's hard.
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Part of me wants to think he likes me really and then another part of me just says that he does it to all the girls he talks to.
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What should I say to him?
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he is playing you, messing with your mind. I have learned one major thing about "players" in my 15 years of life. They USE you. He's teasing you. Beware, stay away, but still be cool to him if he talks to you.
What I would do if I were you:
guy:hey
me:hi
guy:i missed you soo much
me: you have a girlfriend, why borther saying that kind of stuff to me
guy:i don't like her much
me: then why are you with her?
guy: because... I don't know
me: well figure it out and then let me know
guy:....
me: i'm not a play thing, I have feelings
guy: i know you do, and I like you
me: well your with someone else, and I don't want to be the "girl" you cheated on her with
guy:....
yes I just imagined that in my head. Hope it helps!! Much love,
Delia
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Hey,
Well look at it this way. I liked a guy who my friend pretty much had a relationship with and my other friend liked. I started talking to him, and i kinda liked him. But not as much as ive liked other guys. It was a really bad mistake because he left my best friend to be with me and then he cheated on me with my other friend. While we were in a relationship. It really sucked. So for your own sake, i think you should ignore the guy untill he brakes up with the girl. Oh, and hes trying to make yuo jealous by talking about his firlfriend. Think about it: Would you want a boyfriend who would cheat on you the same way hes cheating on his own girlfriend? He has a girlfriend but hes hitting on you. That pretty much cheating. Are you following me? Haha sorry hope i helped.
♥ Michelle
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Hey,
I read your problem and i understand what your going through and how tought it is to love someone ,but not be sure if you should be with that person or not.
But first of all, the thing is that this boy has a girlfriend and he likes her, and she likes him,and therefore this is the first reason that would not make him be with you or even have time to think about you and love you, because he will never break up with his girlfriend to be with you. Second of all, Your best friend likes him, and his girlfriend likes him, and you like him, therefor don't you think that this is going out of hand and that it makes it harder for him to be with you.
All in all, i think that you are really good friends, and that you talk,chat, gossip and have loads of fun. And moreover, when he felt that he wanted to talk to someone about his girlfriend , he came to you and he talked to you about it,because you listen and he trusts you and likes you as a friend. He may have said that he liked you and wanted to be with you,but that was only because he was probably in a fight with his girlfriend,and then the next day they probably made up,so he was happy and couldn't talk about nothing but his girlfriend and how much she likes him.Right? isn't that what happened? this is exactly what made him change his way, and in a day, he's all over you and wants you,and in the next day, he's back with his girlfriend and she likes him and he likes her. That doesn' show him to be a bad friend, but it just shows that he is not serious about loving you and taking a step forward and being your boyfriend, but it was just more like wasting time, or because he was feeling down because of his girlfriend .
So you shouldn't say anything to him,and you shouldn't even ask him about how he said that he liked you,but just act natural and be a good friend and listen to what he has to say and be there for him,because he will do the same to you.But this will only be as friends, but you and him in a relationship will not work. So i know that you like him and i understand how you feel, but sometimes its much better to stay as friends,instead of saying i love you to each other, and then mabye your relationship would not work ,and then you would neither be dating nor would you be friends. So just leave things that way,and don't take a step back wards or forwards.
Finally, if you need any further help or advice,and if you have any troubles, problems ,worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me.
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