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My name is Megz and im from South Africa. The reason why i joined here was because I decided that helping people even if it means only giving them advice could make a big difference.In saying this I hope you all enjoy and if you ever need advice feel free to ask to ask kay.
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Location: South Africa
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: July 16, 2006
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im 13/f and i haven't hooked-up yet. wen the time comes nd a guy asks if ive hooked up, do i lie nd say yes so he will hook-up wit me? or do i say the truth nd say no? for example..........wut if i'm hanging out at a friend's house wit 10 other ppl nd they talk bout their first hook-ups, or we play truth or dare nd i pick truth nd someone aks me have i hooked-up before or who was your first hook-up with? WUT DO I ANSWER TO THAT? Especially since my guy-friends are 15-17 theyve hook-up before nd 1 of them wanna hook-up wit me but they dont know how experienced i am! what do is say? do i say 'yah just twice so im not rele that expereicned but atelast ive hooked-up more than once!' HELP MEhhh! (link)
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oK so you havent hooked up its not like end of the world. Just be honest and tel the truth people will respect you more for that.Why not just be yourself and rather let guys like you for you than how expierced you are.Dont be ashmed that you havent hooked up yet.When the time is right it will happen.Until then keep your head up and be proud of you....kay and try patience as well.Your guys friends went through exactly what you going through so dont stress about it.Lying doesnt help either so rather if some one asks you and you feel the urge to lie bite your tongue and be honest.
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i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice] (link)
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Hi
First of all i want to say i really respect you for the stand you took not to have sex when all your other friends are.Remeber now that all your friends have lost their virginty their trying to get you to follow the trend.Other than just the fact that you get STD's it also affects you emotionally in the long run.
Virginty is more than just not having sex before you married. its basically staying pure to yourself until you find someone who really loves you for you.See emotionally as well your saveing yourself from the regret in the long run and alot of emotional baggage so if your friends bring up the top again.
Just tell them that what they do with there virginty is their own choice.You do withs your is your choice.If your friends are pressuring a great reason is that you respect yourself and your body , you are saving yourself for that special person not for the first guy who gives u the head up.
I can tel you made mature decision and you respect youself to much.But like all things its your choice what you do at the end of the day.
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basicly im in love with this guy and have been for 2 years now , when we first started speaking to each other on msn we were going 2 meet ( he has camera ) but then we had a bit of a fall out . I couldnt stand speeking to him so i rung him up and he was really happy speeking to me again. Well we have been talking since and he says he really likes me etc etc but the thing is hes 24 im 17 .. he lives in essex i live in luton.. and i dont think tat he really wants a relationhip at the moment but i dont know how long i can wait for him !!
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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So Basically what you saying is that you two havent meet yet you are inlove but he doesnt want a relationship.Look at the reality of it you say your inlove but how well do you know him see love is built on getting to know a person and who they are.So do you know him mabey you should meet him and spend time with him before you decide. As far as him not wanting a relationship dont you think this is a sign to you that he is still playing the field and you deserve way better than that.Dont stand still for him you owe that to yourself.
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ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long (link)
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Wow your ex sounds like a jerk so why you compromising your happiness to suit him.He also sound extremely jealous of you being happy ever thought of it that you and this guy sound sweet together and dont let your ex stand in the way of that kay to deserve to be happy.You decide ex as friend or your happiness ?
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my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself... (link)
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Hi
You are not alone i knew somebody who went through what you are going through and she felt desprate and alone.But she got through it,and today she is happy as can be. The problem with some people is that they dont understand what you go through so my advise to you is dont do somthing rash and you are not a disgusting person.Have you ever thought there is some emotion or some situation that could cause you to feel this way.You need to talk to someone you trust and consider going for councilling and as far as your mom goes give her time and also talk to her that is why she is there.The secret to why my friend became happy is because she worked through her problems and sucidal nature and most of all she found God and i can tell you that he changed her and he can heal you and he Loves you remember that.
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