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hOOKING UP
im 13/f and i haven't hooked-up yet. wen the time comes nd a guy asks if ive hooked up, do i lie nd say yes so he will hook-up wit me? or do i say the truth nd say no? for example..........wut if i'm hanging out at a friend's house wit 10 other ppl nd they talk bout their first hook-ups, or we play truth or dare nd i pick truth nd someone aks me have i hooked-up before or who was your first hook-up with? WUT DO I ANSWER TO THAT? Especially since my guy-friends are 15-17 theyve hook-up before nd 1 of them wanna hook-up wit me but they dont know how experienced i am! what do is say? do i say 'yah just twice so im not rele that expereicned but atelast ive hooked-up more than once!' HELP MEhhh!
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oK so you havent hooked up its not like end of the world. Just be honest and tel the truth people will respect you more for that.Why not just be yourself and rather let guys like you for you than how expierced you are.Dont be ashmed that you havent hooked up yet.When the time is right it will happen.Until then keep your head up and be proud of you....kay and try patience as well.Your guys friends went through exactly what you going through so dont stress about it.Lying doesnt help either so rather if some one asks you and you feel the urge to lie bite your tongue and be honest.
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Hey,
You don't have to lie, inorder to draw someone's attention, or take make someone like you. And either if you hooked up with someone before or not, that won't stop someone from liking you and hooking up with you.
I mean.. think about it, these experienced boys of yours ,probably were in your situation once before, and this whole hooking up thing was new to them. But still they hooked up with someone once and twice and three times, till they became experienced. But they didn't have to lie. And besides, boys usually like honest girls who don't care what other people think of them.
And then imagine if you lie, and someone that knows you will tells the others that you are lying, what a complete embarassment and humiliation you'd be in. So lying never leads you to anything, especially in hooking up with someone.
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You shouldn't lie so people will like you. You're only thirteen, I think they will understand if you've never hooked up before. Just be honest about it. If the guy doesn't want to go out with you just because you're not experienced (which I doubt), then he's really in it for the wrong reasons.
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