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im in love but he doesnt want a relationship
hey xxx
basicly im in love with this guy and have been for 2 years now , when we first started speaking to each other on msn we were going 2 meet ( he has camera ) but then we had a bit of a fall out . I couldnt stand speeking to him so i rung him up and he was really happy speeking to me again. Well we have been talking since and he says he really likes me etc etc but the thing is hes 24 im 17 .. he lives in essex i live in luton.. and i dont think tat he really wants a relationhip at the moment but i dont know how long i can wait for him !!
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Hi, if he's not ready then he's not ready. But it doesn't mean that you can't talk to eachother and stuff. Try and keep him as a friend for now because you both live a bit of a distance away and he might find someone he likes around his area in essex. If you keep him as a friend then one day you could both consider moving forward. But usually long distance relationships don't work out. If you two had any plans on building a relationship then you would have to live closer by to him so that you can see eachother on a regular basis and function and do the same things that any couple do in a relationship. Daniel.
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So Basically what you saying is that you two havent meet yet you are inlove but he doesnt want a relationship.Look at the reality of it you say your inlove but how well do you know him see love is built on getting to know a person and who they are.So do you know him mabey you should meet him and spend time with him before you decide. As far as him not wanting a relationship dont you think this is a sign to you that he is still playing the field and you deserve way better than that.Dont stand still for him you owe that to yourself.
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you have a lot of choices here...you can either visit him or ask him to visit you in the summer or you can forget about him and move on with your life...theres definetly nothing wrong with the age difference and its better yhat he is older than you cuz hell be more mature.ask him how far he wants this realationship to go.
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