My boyfriend went with this best friend for his 18th birthday to a strip club..i feel kind of pisssed and disgusted..is this ok to feel this way or am i goin overboard? idk i just feel kind of uncomfortable to think that naked women are gunna be all over him..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MummuM answered Sunday July 23 2006, 7:15 pm: It's normal to feel jealous about this, hun. I'm sure TONS of girls have been in the position you have been in. It's like this man thing to do. It seems, whenever they turn legal age, they just HAVE to go out to a strip club. Don't take this too hard, though. At least he told you and you should be happy he didn't do this behind your back. He's open and honest with you, which is hard to come by these days. Don't worry about the strippers, though. You have him, not them. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
mrs.hernandez answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 10:33 pm: You know what it is normal to feel jealous i will feel the same way. But don't worry about it is just a strip club and at the end of the day he will always be your.But if your argue with him about it and go overbroad he might just go away so try to maintain a low temper and don't go od ok I hope this advice helps you. But Believe I know what you mean and is normal to be jealous [ mrs.hernandez's advice column | Ask mrs.hernandez A Question ]
more_than_a_feeling answered Monday July 17 2006, 7:38 pm: Yeah I'm 15 and my last boyfriend was 18 (we broke up last week). For his 18th birthday back in November his friend wanted to take him to a strip club and do all that stupid stuff you can do once you're 18. I got so pissed when I found out that he was invited, cuz, yeah I didn't want naked woman being all over him. But he didn't even want to go anyway so that was good. But anyway, if you're not comfortable with it, put your foot down and tell him. You totally have a right to feel pissed and disgusted, you aren't going overboard at all. Those places are pretty icky. [ more_than_a_feeling's advice column | Ask more_than_a_feeling A Question ]
Teza answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:09 am: It's normal and you're not going overboard. A lot of girls would also get mad. Just don't take the jelousy to far because guys don't like it and it shows that girl don't trust them. So, trust him with things like that. At the end of the day, he's all yours, not theirs. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ImGoingUnder answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:08 am: no, you're not going overboard, its totally normal to be disgusted and pissed at the thought of having naked women over him. just talk to him, and tell him that you didnt like it, and you'd appreciate it, if he didnt do it again. [ ImGoingUnder's advice column | Ask ImGoingUnder A Question ]
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