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Jealousy, or staying true to myself.
Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.
-- Danielle (on kellys username)
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Most likely all you will accomplish by doing that is getting him to break up with you.
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I dont think hooking up with other people is a good idea. Usually with guys they do end up wanting you more if they see you talking to other guys or you know flirting with other guys but it can go the opposite way to. Jealousy can ruin a relationship really quick. if you love him. stay with him and prove to him you love him. He'll show it too. Hope i helped ! [:
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Hi, trying to make him jelouse may work, but the best option is to go and ask him out. That way you will get a straight answer. Daniel.
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Don't try and make him jealous. He will just be like, "She doesn't like me." & move on. Just freaking ask him out if you like him. That's usually but most people DO. How old are you anyways, I mean, most people figure, 'I like a guy, I flirt and maybe ask him out.' But they DEFINITLY don't think, 'Hmm. Maybe I'll go out with other guys. Maybe then he will like me.' It'll probably just make him think your slutty. Which isn't good. Future advice - don't ask stupid questions on advicenators. It makes people angry
--Shelby
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Don't hook up with other guys. It will only make him think you're a slut. Trust me, it happened to me. I liked this guy and he kinda liked me back. So I flirted with other guys to see if he got jealous nut it totally turned him off because he thought that if i was all over other guys now, how would i be when we went out.
So, just stick with Ross.
P.S. no guy wants a long relationship with a girl who has "been around the block"
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Look be truth to yourself. Don't hook up with all these other guys because that would make you look like a whore going from guy to guy. And don't rush things between you and Ross if is for you he will come to you himself but if he doesn't is because he wasn't for you and the person for you hasn't come yet. I know sometimes the single life is not that fun. But is better for you to have him as a friend better than having as nothing don't you think. i hope i helped you
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I usually refrain from answering things like this. The times where I just want to smack some sense into you (the person seeking "advice"), but I can't since I am a level 2 moderator here. But fuck it, this is just horrible.
You're in love with him, and you want to "hook up" with other people just to fuck with him?
What the HELL? Are you incredibly manipulative, or a whore? Or are you both?
I suppose that's your answer right there.
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