ok so theres this guy Jesse. I went out with him in january and we broke up but since then he's always been there for me and told me when guys were using me and still cared about me for so long. in march/april we got back "together" but didnt like officially go out, because i ruined it by ditching him for another guy. after that he was still nice to me and we have been friends, but lately we've been drifting apart and i guess the distance has mademe realize that he was one thing in my life that was always there, left unappreciated. i realized that i really love him deep in my heart, and i cant lose him. i really feel like hes not the same anymore, he doesnt seem to care like he used to. i really hate myself for letting this happen and ive tried so hard to fix it. i sent him a page long letter that really showed how muchi cared and he just doesnt seem the same. i really miss him so much and i need advice.
jumadel answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:38 pm: Hi, do you know were he lives? You could go round to his house and talk to him in person. Otherwise the next time you see him, arrange somewhere were you can both meet and tell him there. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:36 pm: I don't know if you'll like this, but seems like you broke this guy's heart.
The best thing I can think for you to do is instead of writing him a letter telling the way you truly feel, you should tell him face to face. That way, he sees that you are being sincere about what you say to him. He can see more in your face than he can see in a piece of paper.
But don't hate yourself over mistakes made. Just be sure to learn from them, because mistakes often teach valuable lessons.
I hope you get your guy, because sounds like he's a fine one. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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