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mmm... getting over someone
i know this may be long, but please i really really need help, i hate being heartbroken like this =[
so basically, i've liked this kid, lets call him gary, since the 4th grade, and now i'm going into 9th. we were "boyfriend and girlfriend" at the end of 5th grade, but since he was a grade younger, we couldn't see eachother when i went into 6th grade. i did something pretty low during the middle of 6th grade, i told my brother to brake up with me for him since i never saw him anymore, and started going out with this other kid. i still always thought of him, but i really wanted to just get over him. Then during the summer going into 7th grade, i went to his house because i found out my brother never told him that i didn't like him anymore, so i went to tell him because i was having dreams that we were back together. It turns out that he was away, so i talked to his mom and found out we had the same lunch period (i nearly died). THe first day i saw him in lunch, my heart explodedd, and so a few months later i broke up with my current boyfriend and he asked me out 2 days later, i said yes. After 3 months, things started going bad, and we broke up. I was soo soo depressed, i didn't know what to do with myself. Its been more than a year since we broke up and i still have feelings for him. He's had another girlfriend, but they didn't last for more than a month. i've never felt this away about someone, and i haven't talked to him in about 5 months. so i have a few questions.
1)how can i feel such a connection with him and feel sparks when i see him, but he doesn't feel the same? i mean cauz literally when i'd pass him in the hall, it would just feel like we were the only two people who existed at that moment.
2)i need to get over him, but i don't know how.
3)will i ever feel the same connection with someone else, or does this kind of connection only come around once? i'm not even sure if its a connection, its just my hurt bursts when i see him and i get sparks and everything, and it feels like we're the only two people who exist when we lock eyes, and he used to look at me in such a way that no one had ever looked at me before.
currently 13/f, almost 14.
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Hi,
1. Just because you like him, doesn't mean that he feels the same way.
2. Find someone else you like or make more friends as a suggestion
3. You probaly will feel the same way about someone else, if not soon then later on in life.
You will probaly feel this for the rest of your life, especially through your teenage years.
I know that love hurts. I'm sorry if it's hurting you although I can understand were your coming from. Usually we like someone but they don't feel the same way, and it hurts us. You will probaly go through your teen years and see different people you like. Hope that helps and if you want to ask me about anything else then feel free to do so. Daniel.
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Heya doll. I reckon that you shouldn't have to worry about finding your 'perfect guy' when you're a teenager. You have your 30's to flip about that. I think that you should just put all of what happened in the past and try to get some sort of friendship with him. Talk to him and become friendly again. Having him as your friend is better than not talking to each other at all.
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