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Question Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:43 pm

i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?


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merecedesxlove answered Friday July 21 2006, 11:21 am:
If that was me.I would have dumped his ass right then and there if he told me that.If he cheated on you 3 times...well once a cheater, always be a cheater.So I wouldnt stay with him hes likely to do it again.I think you shouldn't bother with him.Sounds like you got some dense guy on your hands.Just tell him you dont want anything to do with him.Tell him straight up how you feel and let him know what hes done to you and that its not an ok thing.

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missmad127 answered Thursday July 20 2006, 5:44 pm:
i think that you should tell him that you don't want take the risk at getting hurt by him if he cheats or "decides" y'all aren't together and gets together with another girl.

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Vikki27 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 1:47 pm:
I think you know what you need to do. Walk away and don't look back.

I know that you like him, but he's treating you like a doormat. He's cheated on you and you've taken him back so many times now that he knows he will be able to get away with it as many times as he likes! After all, what's to stop him if his girlfriend is willing to stay with him after he's been unfaithful?

You need to stand up for yourself. Think about this for a moment. If one of your friends said their guy had done this to them, what would you tell them to do? Hopefully, it would be to slap the guy good and hard round the face and walk away!! Now, I don't want to encourage physical violence here. However, I do want you to put this guy in his place. You need to break up with him once and for all, in a way that lets him know that you deserve better than him and that he can't get away with treating people like this.

Tell him that you care about him, but he's not a good guy and you don't want to be with someone you can't trust not to stray whenever you turn your back on him. Let him know that you deserve better than a two timing loser who wouldn't know fidelity if it bit him in the armpit and then go find yourself a guy who knows how to treat you (not to mention the female race) with a bit of respect.

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cheerchik answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 10:34 am:
I think u should just end ur relationship w/ him. He's obviously not 100% commited 2 u.

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karie28 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 6:50 am:
Player....player...player....

NO ONE ever wants to end up with a player and I know you don't want to end up with one, too.

Ditch him, forget about him, and get a life, girl. You'll just waste your precious time with a guy like him. And c'mon, did you Really believe that he's not aware that you were dating?! Lame...lame...lame....

And always remember: ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER.

Hope I helped you a lil' bit.

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xOViLLYxO answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:53 pm:
He`s a player hes trying to get you and other girls, and don't fall for it.When he kisses you just get away from him.I hate guys like that.The only thing you can do and not get hurt is ignore him & let him go , don't even talk to him.

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beachbarbie721 answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:53 pm:
Hun-i dont mean to sound harsh but this guy is a jerk. you deserve better and there's a guy that WILL treat you better. i know. i've been through something similar. there are a lot of sweet guys out there. just keep looking. dont give up on them....just give up on the jerk you thought you were dating. hope things go well. and tell him he needs to learn the right way to treat a girl for me. okay?
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CheapChineseFood answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:50 pm:
This is very lame. You should promptly tell him to go fuck himself, and move on with chick flicks and alot of ice cream.

No one DOES NOT KNOW that they're dating someone.
And only an idiot would try to kiss someone after they just said that.

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