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ok so whats a guys idea of the perfect girlfriend..... (link)
Guys usually like blondes, popular, wear make up, smell good girls. I know it sounds a little weird, but this is what guys want there girlfriend to be like.


lets say you get your permit and i know you have to drive with someone that is older than 21 that has had driving experience, but what if i want to go driving with my mom. my mom doesn't drive and doesnt know how to drive so could i still go driving with her because she is my parent? (link)
No i think you have to drive with somebody that has a liscense. Sorry but i think its the law. Maybe you could drive with your dad. Hope i helped!


my birthdayy is in late august. i don't really feel like having a party, and i want to do something fun maybe with just my best friend or a couple people. what are some suggestions? thankyouu! sorry if its in the wrong category. (link)
You could go to the movies, or a concert. Thos e are my only ideas. Sorry if this doesnt help.


I am 14 and a girl.OK.I have a very sweet boyfriend who really likes me but i dont like him that much.I like a boy named jay and hes cute funny and nice.Hes perfect.My boy friend is raceist AND I HATE THAT SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is also a tinny hight thing that gets on my nerves.I dont want 2 have 2 look down at him.me and jay r a little closer in hight.I would break up with him but my parents would be wondering why i broke up with him and i dont want 2 breake his heart.I DONT WANT 2 GO THROUGH THE DRAMA IT WILL BRING!!!:( (link)
If you dont love him i think you should end the relationship. Jay seems perfect for you. I hope this helps.


I'm a 15 yr. old guy and I've recently realized I like one of my best girl friends (Let's call her Rachel). She's a really nice girl-and at one of my friends parties last week, I told my other best friend that I liked Rachel, but I thought she liked someone else at the party (Let's call him Jamie). My friend wasn't sure, and she told me that she wouldn't tell Rachel or anyone else. I've been talking to her a lot on AIM, and I like her even more- but I'm not sure if I should make a move and ask her out, I'm afraid that my heart will be broken once again (already broken thrice by my friend I talked to at the party). Please help!
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If you really like Rachel then you should ask her out. If she turns you down and you 'get your heart broken' pick yourself up again and start over. You've never lived life until you've taken some chances! :)


16/F,this girl who use to bully me so badly in 5th grade continues to gossip and say all of this crap about me in high school. Because of her actions, I've had a low self-esteem.

I could care less about what she says or thinks about me cause her opinions don't matter to me at all. Usually, I'll just ignore her and I won't let it bother me. I was willing to forget about the past and forgive her but she just refuses. I think that she is really immature for holding a grudge against me for so long. My best friend told me that she could be jealous or she needs to pick on someone to make herself feel better. But, I'm wondering what is her problem and why do you think she continues to do this? (link)
Maybe this girl IS jealous of you. If she is its still no reason to pick on. The girl might have something else troubling her at home, which might cause to need an outlet for her anger and your it. I hope you can fix things.


Yes just now i went into my moms room and i went in her closet and i found a bucket and i opened it and it was full of vomit i began crying and throwing things.. i had a feeling that she was doing that because one time i found vomit in the trash and she lied right to my face and said she was sick.. but she did it on purpose and i should of known that she eats a lot and she is extreamly skinny and weighs less than me.. i wrote her a not and put it on the bucket sayin that we need to talk and get you some help but i just have a feeling that shes gonna end up lying to me.. i mean im just have so much goin through me right now because im affraid she gonna end up killin herself and im just soo pissed off and upset

so it u would please please someone help me cuz i dont know what else to do :( (link)
Its a good thing that your concerned for your mom. It shows your caring, but i think that your mom should see a doctor instead of just working things put herself. I hope everything works out for her. :)


My best friend is WAY too sensitive. And it's soo annoying like you would NOT believe. I'm really getting sick of it. Her boyfriend just broke up with her a week ago, but they were only dating for like a week and a half. I also have a boyfriend, and we're friends with another couple. So she's the 5th wheel I guess. And I understand that she feels left out, so I do invite her to a lot of things. But yesterday was the first day I didn't invite her, because it was just the two couples (me and my boyfriend, and the other couple we're friends with). She got SO pissed off, and wasn't talking to me, and started crying on the phone. And then she hung up on me. Today I called her and she wasn't talking to me. I'm really getting annoyed with this. I try to tell her that it's not my fault and that she can't take her anger out on me just because I have a boyfriend but she does it anyway. She sulks in her room all day when I spend time with my boyfriend. How the heck am I supposed to deal with her?! HELP ME PLEASE. :| (link)
I think that maybe your friendship with her isnt working out. Or maybe you should go over your friends house and try to talk to her about it (calmly). Good Luck!! :|


my little brother is turning 5 and he is having a basketball birthday party. what are some games the kids can play that have to do with basketball or the use of a basketball? (please dont say "play basketball)

websites are helpful too. = ) (link)
you could play around the world, 21, or horse. But otherwise i dont have any ideas. Sorry and good luck! :)


Hey. Do any of you guys know what "SOL" means, because a tee-shirt says " Ur SOL pal" (from Hollister). Thanks! (link)
SOL means soulmate


Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him? (link)
It sounds like this guy is afraid to ask you out, so i think you should ask him, but first you should maybe c if your friend minds if u ask him.


My parents blame me for everything.
Our cell phone bill was high, it wasn't my brothers' faults, it was automaticly mine.
My friend stole my camera before she moved, and has even told people, but it's still my fault its gone.
Its my fault my family has big money problems.
Its my fault my mom is fat.

I`m just a 13yr old girl, sometimes my parents can be so cool, but they`ll just snap and all the sudden I`m the target of their anger! What should I do? (link)
I think u should try talking to ur family. It mite help smooth things over for a while.


i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?
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I think u should just end ur relationship w/ him. He's obviously not 100% commited 2 u.


My best friend is just like me exact! i mean we say all the same thing at the same time and everything! she taly alsome! we do everthing to gether.Do u think well stay best friends? (link)
I dont know. Ive had friendships like that where we are 2 much alike a have 2 go our seperate ways becuz it can get annoying 2 have some b the same as u.


Ive always had low self-esteem but for the past few weeks it has really hit a high point. About two weeks ago I ate too much after being on a great diet and losing almost 15 pounds and I weighed myself for the first time then since I had lost weight and i already gained 2 pounds back. I know it wasnt much but it made me so upset that I decided that I would just throw it up and just not eat for the rest of the night. Since then its become a habit. Ill eat a regular sized meal and then throw it up, eat later in the day, keep it and just not eat again. Some days I dont eat at all because I know that I will just want to throw it up later. I really scared myself and Ive been okay for the past few days, but I dont want to feel like I need to throw up again. I know the health issues with it and I know it is very damaging both physically and mentally. I dont want my mom to worry about me any more than she already has to, shes dealing with a lot of stress right now and so I was just wondering if there are any ways that would help me to deal with this or if there is anywhere I could get help. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you (link)
Maybe u should c a doctor. This problem could get serious and u mite hurt urself.




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