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ok so whats a guys idea of the perfect girlfriend.....
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Well theres pretty much no such thing as a "perfect" girlfriend. just be yourself. if he like you, then your perfect enough for him.
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queen hearts has an idea going there. Those first two were wrong. I'm a guy so I'll let you know.
Since for some reason girls think that every guy actually goes for looks, we can start off on that.
Smile - That is probably the most important thing you can wear. Don't fake smile, but don't be afraid to do smile more often.
Eye contact - Self-explanatory.
Make-up - Very little. Most would rather see a girl with no make up than with a ton of it on. So go really light, or even better none at all.
Everything else - Anything goes. It really does depend on the guy. If you dyed your hair bleach blonde, some guys might really like it, but some guys might hate it. You can't please everyone. It depends on the guy, and if the guy depends on your looks well then...he isn't worth it.
Now for the bigger picture, personality.
Sense of humor - Some might say it is the most important, because you should be fun to be around. You should also be able to take a joke.
Seriousness - Have a degree of seriousness, not taking things too lightly all the time, but be able to bend.
Best friend - Some will say that your best friend should be your bf/gf. I guess in a way thats true. So be there for them as a best friend. That has to be mutual, and partially depends on the other person.
Be open - If you are annoyed, say so. If you like him, say so. As much as you don't want to say something that you honestly feel, you really need to. That is what seperates you from being just a girlfriend, and being a good girlfriend. Too many relationships have fallen apart just because they were afraid of saying something.
Honesty - Nobody likes a John Tucker personality. Be trurthful, which will lead to trustworthyness. Any guy, or friend for that matter, should feel comfortable with sharing something personal with you. That is done through trust and honesty.
Be tough - Some guys get really annoyed when a girl is plastic or high maintenence. "Oh my god! I broke a nail!" That kinda stuff is no good. You don't need to have muscle, but just can't be afraid to do or say things if you need to.
Be yourself - you don't need me to tell you how to do that.
There are a lot of things I probably didn't mention, but I think those are the most fundamental. Remember, all guys are different and have different tastes, so if you don't please or fit a certain number of guys, doesn't mean you won't fit for anyone else. Besides, you shouldn't even have to change all that much, because you should be yourself. More than anything, its personality over looks. I'll let you know that no matter how hard you try, you probably won't be perfect, but thats ok so long as your perfect for the guy. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well yeah the first two columnists are wrong.
Not all guys think that.
A perfect girlfriend can be anyone to any guy.
It's not about looks, popularity, or being blonde.
- good hygiene. :]
- a sense of humor
- be a little openminded
- don't be "clingy" [this is one of the things that annoy them, just hang out with your friends if you can't see him]
-being interested in some thing they like [music, movies, art, video games ?] so you both can enjoy it together.
- communication is a big thing.
- willing to go out and have fun [like going to the beach] but i guess that depends on the guy
I don't know.. this is what I've noticed.
don't listen to someone who tells you.. the perfect girlfriend LOOKS -like this-
because you don't need a guy like that. It's all about personality. Looks are a plus and I know, he will think you're beautiful in his eyes.
I'm pretty sure a guy wouldn't want a "hot girl" that's always bitchy, you know?
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All guys like different type of girls. I think the two columnsist below me took a guess or maybe it was from their past but like I said, there are different type of guys that like different type of girls. What type of guy you're talking about, I have no idea. Some guys are attracted to just looks, others to personality.
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Guys usually like blondes, popular, wear make up, smell good girls. I know it sounds a little weird, but this is what guys want there girlfriend to be like.
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easy question
1)Brunette
2)no make-up
3)elvish looks
4)Younger
5)PLayful and immature
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