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My friend is WAY too sensitive.
My best friend is WAY too sensitive. And it's soo annoying like you would NOT believe. I'm really getting sick of it. Her boyfriend just broke up with her a week ago, but they were only dating for like a week and a half. I also have a boyfriend, and we're friends with another couple. So she's the 5th wheel I guess. And I understand that she feels left out, so I do invite her to a lot of things. But yesterday was the first day I didn't invite her, because it was just the two couples (me and my boyfriend, and the other couple we're friends with). She got SO pissed off, and wasn't talking to me, and started crying on the phone. And then she hung up on me. Today I called her and she wasn't talking to me. I'm really getting annoyed with this. I try to tell her that it's not my fault and that she can't take her anger out on me just because I have a boyfriend but she does it anyway. She sulks in her room all day when I spend time with my boyfriend. How the heck am I supposed to deal with her?! HELP ME PLEASE. :|
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I hate to say it, I really hate to say it, but the only way I see to deal with over sensitive people is to wait for them to grow up. It may be a week; it may never happen, but you just have to wait. Try to be nice to her, but dont appologise for things you shouldnt have to appologise for. Treat her like you treat any of your friends. No one should get special treatment due to them being sensitive. You could try explaining it to her but chances are she will go all emotional on you.
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It seems to me like your friend is very very lonely, and just clinging to you. You should tell her to back off, cause you have your own life too, and deserve your space.
If you want to hang out with your bf, and go double dating, without her there, then thats your buisness. She should expect to be included in everything. Thats not fair to you.
I would suggest talking to her (when she calms down) and telling her that you and you bf need time to be alone. And that you love to hang out with her (somtimes) but she's not your only friend.
I really hope i helped, and if i didn't, message me, and i'll try to work out some other things.
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I think that maybe your friendship with her isnt working out. Or maybe you should go over your friends house and try to talk to her about it (calmly). Good Luck!! :|
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Try finding her a boyfriend.
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