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My friend is mad at me. We are both thirteen. And we are both girls. She has been calling me names. I keep telling her that she's acting like a five-year-old. And every time I email her she keeps saying I'm acting dumb and weird... and up until now she's stopped talking to me. What should I do?
First give this girl some time to cool off.She probably still steamed from the fight and when you talk to her she probably will want to make a nasty comment or something else.After you've waited you need to tell her to give you a chance to explain.It may take some time but you should become friends again
recently i learned how completly nieve ive been. it turns out like a ton of people at my school cut themselves and i didn't notice at all. these are people im rwally close to...one's my best friend but you don't know her so as i promised i probably dont have to kill myself for telling you. you know i dont want her to hurt herself and what hurts me even more is that she says its the only thing that makes her happy. when i think about it i dont feel like im thinking a bout the same bff ive had since 1st grade and i just want her to stop. shes trying but im afriad if she doesn't have a theat it wont work. i dont want to tell an adult(well canr really) and i dont want her to be unhappy...but i DONT WANT HER TO KEEP DOING IT! How can i tell her to stop? and this doesn't mean shes like a masochist does it?
Your should really tell her she needs to stop.If she still doesn't stop you need to tell an adult.Your not tattle-tayling on her, always remember your helping her.I know i would just hate to sand there and see my friend hurt herself.Overall my point is to tell an adult and take action.NOW!
i am realy sceared about getting cancer because my mum had cancer she survived and my auntie had cancer she died they had the same kind my dads dad had cancer he died and now my mums dad had got cancer 2 differant types my head is so messed up worrying about it and worrrying about my mum how she is handling in first she had it then she watched her sister die now she has to watch her dad go through it i had just got my life back on track got great frends, family and a great job n i think i am gonna loose it all as i am depressed and spending loads of time on my own someone plz help me.
I know cancer is a very scarey thing. Hae i ever expirienced it?No.Have i had people in my outer family who had it?Yes.I do know it is a very scarey thing and i do no that being afraid of getting something bad from your parents is scarey and perfectley normal.I would like to say i completely understand but i would be lying.Anyway though, you should talk to someone with the same kind of problem like your mom who had it.You probably will be able to relate to her.Tell her how you have been feeling.She should be able to help.
one of my good friends, taylour, just got suspended, which is not good at all, because she is leaving tomorrow, far away, but she has to go with her dad, but she is wanting to stay with her mother here. Her step mom is a complete lunatic, and really phsyco.
The thing is that there had been a plan for her mother to take her in the middle of the night, but now, they cant do that, because her step mom will be there!
Does anybody know who i can call for her or anything, to try and save her from having to go, and live with complete torture?
please please please please please please..... help, she really does need it, like asap!
Hev
Well I would just like to say that if her mom is what you call phsyco, you need to get her help.In the mantime tell your friends dad that you really like this taylor girl, in fact shes a great friend.Tell the man that you would hate to see her leave, and you would really miss her.Try to sort something out like if they can help Taylor's mom, than maybe the dad could consider moving someplace around your area so you can still hang out from time to time.I know your friend probably won't accept the changes at first, but if she moves far away she'll get new friends (don't worry i highley doubt she could forget a good friend back in her old home).If none of this advice helps then just beg the dad if you can visit her like every summer, so you can still stay in touch.If you ask nicely hes bound to say yes!
Yes just now i went into my moms room and i went in her closet and i found a bucket and i opened it and it was full of vomit i began crying and throwing things.. i had a feeling that she was doing that because one time i found vomit in the trash and she lied right to my face and said she was sick.. but she did it on purpose and i should of known that she eats a lot and she is extreamly skinny and weighs less than me.. i wrote her a not and put it on the bucket sayin that we need to talk and get you some help but i just have a feeling that shes gonna end up lying to me.. i mean im just have so much goin through me right now because im affraid she gonna end up killin herself and im just soo pissed off and upset
so it u would please please someone help me cuz i dont know what else to do :(
First of all I would like to say that you did the right thing comfronting her.I know thats not very easy.Secondly if she's lying to you maybe you should tell another parent, relative, or evan a really close family friend.Handiling this situation by yourself is very hard so if at first you think that you don't need an adults help, please think again.If your mother is still not fessing up, evan after you told her you knew, than you need to ask someone close to get her into therapy.If you can not afoard help than why not raise money.Also might i add when she is at home watch her very closely making shure she is ok.If you catch her in the act than at least you'll get her confessing about her problem.Just remember two things.You really need a trusted adult to help you at your side, and two everything you do is helping your mother become healthy again.
My sleep cycle is really bad.I will go to sleep at 12 or 1 am just because i cant fall asleep and then i have truoble getting up for work by 7 am how can i fix my sleep cycle to normal hrs? It's really messing up my life i am ALWAYs TIRED.
thanks!
You might just be stressed.Sometimes I can never fall asleep because of all the things that need to be done.I always have this problem when there is a book report due and i procastinated (again!).Might i suggest to take a sleeping pill about 15 minutes before you go to bed.If the pill isn't working or just isn't for you, try taking to a docter and you can be able to sort it out- hope i helped
okay i normaly eat like an avarage amount of food but a little more cause i have breakfast, lunck, snack, and dinner okay well i haven't been eatting breakfast or snack and i haven't been eatting much at dinner its weird bcause i am always hungry but im NOT fat (im 13, 5 feet 1 inch, and 90 lbs) so what do you think this is about its kinda weird because i eat a TON and i haven't been hungry for like anything what should i do? Please help
Your hungermight just be having a simple groth spirt.Maybe not though.If you find yourself eating more try setting three times a day of meals ( be shure to count one as breakfast and not a time between lunch and dinner of a snack bananza) and maybe two small snacks to hold you over to the next meal.
okay well i really like this guy and i know that he likes me and we are both really shy none of my friends know that i like him.Its summer and what do i do when i go back to school and see him again
Go for it.If your shure he likes you whats holding you back.Always remember though, it should be your choice if you like him or even date him, not your friends ( if they ever do figure out you like him that is)
I really like this boy but im not so shure he likes me. What do i do...I want him to know i like him, but only if he likes me back.-afraid
Dear afraid,
I know exactley how you feal.Every girl goes through it, including me.So just be nice to him and be nice showing him that your into him.Let him keep guessing if you really do like him.If hes into you he will definatley go for it, even if he's not a 100% shure because hes so eager. Believe me, it will all work out if it's supposed to.