okay well i really like this guy and i know that he likes me and we are both really shy none of my friends know that i like him.Its summer and what do i do when i go back to school and see him again
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Melody answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 7:33 pm: Going back to school has always been a big deal to me. I see it as starting over. Kind of like some see the New Year as a chance to change themselves for the better. It's a fresh start at something new. It's a chance for you to try being more up front about your feelings. This means you can talk to the guy you like, without the fear of rejection. I don't see the problem there because you already know for a fact that you won't get rejected hince the fact you said, "and i know that he likes me" So I personally say go for it.
If you know he likes you and you like him, flirt a little. Or talk a close friend into bringing up the fact that you two should date while you are both there. Then be like, "I'd love to, but there's not way he'd date me.." in a flirty, silly kind of kidding voice. And most likely he'll be like "Noo, it's you that wouldn't date me." Then you could get your friend to be like, "Oh yea? Prove it! Ask her out." And if he's to shy to just be like, "Will you go out with me" Viola! You've just got a boyfriend.
Or if you're like me, you could just ask him out on a date. Be like, "Want to go to the movies with me, my friend, and her boyfriend?" That way it will be like a group date so it won't be to obvious, but you'll always be with him, because your friend and boyfriend will be together. Then just be like, "You're really cool, we should go out again sometime." But only the two of you. Then eventually someone will ask someone out when the time is right. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
SparkleAngel answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 7:19 pm: go for it if he probably would ask you out but he is to shy too it doesn't matter what your friends think just go for it if you want to then go girl go I hope it works out between you two it is sure too
thelaura answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 7:05 pm: Why not arrange to meet up with him during the holidays? It will help you get to know him better and become less shy around each other.
If you'd rather wait until school, why not make the first move? Or perhaps you should tell your friends. It might make it easier if they talk to him for you if you are too shy. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
starstruck516 answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 7:05 pm: Go for it.If your shure he likes you whats holding you back.Always remember though, it should be your choice if you like him or even date him, not your friends ( if they ever do figure out you like him that is) [ starstruck516's advice column | Ask starstruck516 A Question ]
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