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not so great listener
im a pretty supportive person when it comes to my friends. when they need to talk i listen, when they ask for advice i give it to them, my opinion etc. but when i need to talk sometimes they wont listen. i do talk alot but im not a bad listener and im always their for my friends when they need me to be. recently i had a really hard week and i NEEDED to talk to a friend of mine, but every time i tried calling or iming etc. she wouldnt answer. then i commented her on myspace and she freaked out on me! she was like " sometimes people just dont want to talk when theyre mad, your not the only one w/ problems!" and i didnt have a clue what she was talking about! if she needed to talk she could have just said something and i would have listened to her while she talked it all out, but when i needed her she wasnt there for me. am i over reacting, or is she in the wrong? PLEASE HELP!
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YOu know what seriously your friend doesn't care about you she only cares about herself. You need to stop thinking about other people so much and think about your feelings too. Because your important too. And if you need someone to talk to even though you don't know me you can talk to me about anything. Consider me your new friend. So i hope this could help you a little and if you have any question don't doubt to come to me or better said write to me about anything. And your a good friend there should be more people like you bye And she is wrong in every way
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well sometimes when people are upset the over react your friend might ahve not been that mad she just over reacted but you are right she should have listened too ask her what the matter is and then after you guys talk about her problem try to relate yours in to the converation so you can sorta talk about both then you both will feel better
>>> SparkleAngel
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