See this girl I just became friends with at the begin of summer wants me to break her up her boyfriend whos a jerk. But the thing is, i used to like the boy, and he knew it. I'm afriad if i do that, he'll think im lying or I want him or something. but I dont like him anymore. Also, I dont want to do it. I dont think I should be the one to do it. But I dont think she'll do it and he's an ass. Should I do it or should I just ask him to talk to her?
9BigBrat6 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 8:01 pm: You're probably right, she should do it herself but she might be more afriad to than you.If you do it just be striaght foward with him. "(name) doesn't think it's working out and before you jump to any conclusions, i don't think it would work out between the two of us. It's her that wants it over." [ 9BigBrat6's advice column | Ask 9BigBrat6 A Question ]
mrs.hernandez answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 9:02 am: You should just tell your friend to talk to him herself that is my best advice for you. Because is not your problem to solve it. But also the best thing you can do is be there for your friend no matter what [ mrs.hernandez's advice column | Ask mrs.hernandez A Question ]
orphans answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 8:00 am: yOU shouldnt break up with HER boyfriend. she doesnt own you, so you dont have to let her. also, its so lame when people break up through other people. what are you 11? [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
katie_knows_all481 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 1:43 am: Don't let this girl push you around. Don't give into peer pressure just because this girl is your so called 'friend'. real friends don't pressure you to do things you don't want to do. Tell the boy to talk to his girlfriend himself. [ katie_knows_all481's advice column | Ask katie_knows_all481 A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 1:35 am: Just let her do her own dirty work. Its really not a good idea to get in the middle.
Next month if she decides she made a mistake...you will be the bad guy. Just tell her you can't do it for her, she needs to do it herself. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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