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his ex/girlfriend


Question Posted Wednesday July 19 2006, 12:38 am

16/f
so long story short.
this girl dumped her boyfriend.
he came to me. 4 months later we were dating
he broke up with me
back with his old girlfriend.

i want to send him a message over myspace but the thing is,is that i dont want his girlfriend to see it. should i send it anyway, its about our relationship. she never knew that we were going out and if she were to din out she would probably break up with him and i dont want that. i just have to tell him something. should i just send it anyway? i cant do it in person.
pleaseee help.
opinons?
anything


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Additional info, added Wednesday July 19 2006, 11:04 am:
she has his password and login name and everything. so she is able to go on his myspace and check everything.
he doesnt have a cell phone because of his girlfriend(she called too late at night and his mom hates her so his mom got rid of the cell phone) SHES EVIL!!!!!
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miren2k answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 9:57 am:
On myspace you can send a personal message by clicking "send message" on their profile. This way only he will be able to read it when he logs on and checks his messages (not to be confused with comments)

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orphans answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 8:01 am:
well if you dont leave it as a comment, only as a message, she shouldnt be able to read it. but if she does go through his emails, right at the end for her to delete it

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Razhie answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 7:10 am:
Why not use something other then myspace?

Using myspace is just asking for trouble and it will make you seem like you were trying to make his girlfriend see the message. Send him an e-mail, write him a letter or even call him. If you don't have his e-mail address or number, ask around until you find someone who does. (You could even ask him for the information say like "Hey, could I have your e-mail address? There is something I really want to tell you but I'd be more comfortable writing it to you.")

Even if getting his contact information takes a little while if there is something private that you need to tell him that desperately, it's worth doing a little work to make sure the message remains private. Making a private message public isn't fair to him, and it makes you seem like you are trying to get attention and cause trouble.

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Exquisitechick answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 1:51 am:
Yes, send it to him. Or if he has a cell you can text him. =] or you can write him a letter. just make sure you do tell him =]

Good luck

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