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liking someone really hurts...especially when they have a g/
im 16/f and this guy is 14 i know age difference but i dont care..
i started to kinda like this guy before he got a girlfriend. we always flirted and he would touch me and we would wrestle and i would get on top of him but then when i find out he asked this girl out that he liked i was kinda..heartbroken <3 i mean i was thinking wow no more flirting this is going to be boring! but the thing is everytime i see him we still flirt like crazy. we still wrestled because i said i could beat him even though i know i couldnt but i just wanted to be by him and flirt with him. he always like does a handshake with me and like links my hand with his but then does something else and then like we have this couch at my friends house that we fight over and then if im on it and he tells me to get off and i dont he gets on top of me and one time i told him to get off and he wouldnt so i like sat on top of him and it felt like we were kinda boyfriend/girlfriend. but one time i was at my friends and he is their neighbor and i saw his girlfriend at his house and that made me really hurt! i dont know what to do anymore i pratically talk to this kid everyday but im not one to say to him..oh i kinda like you what are you feeling for me?
what should i do..keep flirting or try to like talk to other guys and maybe have him hear about it and be like kinda jealous or what would work so he would get my attention.
i know he is attracted to me but i just dont know with this whole girlfriend thing she is like gorgeous everyone thinks she looks like jessica simpson. but im stuck on this guy ..my feelings are really strong and i just cant move on everytime i see him he draws me in and i just wanna kiss him but i know i cant..
he isnt a player by the way just so you know! and i know he wouldnt cheat on his girlfriend
well thanks guys!
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I know what it feels like im in the exact same situation. there's a boy that i hang out with over the summer and we get really close to and flirt alot! but ... he sometimes brings up other girls that hes likes and it hurts alot . so my advice is to try and take a break from him and look for someother guys. =] and who knows you might not know how long there relationship will last so if they do ever break up you can always go back to him, and you never know he might really like you and just might be trying to make you jelous.=]]
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Forget him and find someone else. You don't need him. I can't tell you exactly how to get over him, everyone is different, but find another guy. Not to get your mind off him or take his place, but to make you happy and want this new guy. Someone who'll care for you, talk to you, and will never hurt you. Maybe ask this guy you want to know for help (for instance your bag strap breaks, ask if he would help), when he's done look him in the eye, smile and say thank you.
Hope I helped.
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ok well i know how you feel because i have the same problem but the thing is what you should do is write out a speech that would really get to him but say it don't red it off a paper to him that is lame let him think that you just said that speech right there that yiu made it up right there but you have to make it really good and it must touich his heart if yoiu know what i mean well i am going to try to do the same thing well i hope this is good advice but well good luck
jessica
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I know how you feel. Guys are just jerks. I've experienced countless repetitions of your case and I have to say, that these type of guys jus wanna flirt with you. Simple. period.
If guys really like you, they will straight away tell you how they feel and not beat around the bush. They're simple creatures. They're not like girls. Girls have more emotional attachment whereas most guys( I'm not saying all guys) can just flirt and not get emotionally attached to their flirtee(or watever you call it). If he has a gf already, then it confirms the fact that he likes his gf more than he likes you.
He's not worth your time. Serious. You'll be happier getting over him and meeting new and possibly, beter guys. I know you're thinking bout the fact that you dun wan any other guys but just him. But think bout it, if you two were to be together, will you be able to trust him? He has a gf now and yet he is flirting around with you. Are you sure that you wan such a bf?
Think of the consequences and dun just dive straight in to get wat you want.
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hey i know what you mean but for noone get hurts try to keep you distant. But it looks like he likes you too. You need to be careful because it sounds like he has feelings for both of you. But really my advice will be talk to him about. and you never know you must just e right for each other tell me if this helps ok By the way if you want to get over him keep your mind busy go out with your friends always do something and try not to listen to love songs because that will make it worse. I hope this helps
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he obviously took you as a freind while you didnt.he probaly just flirts with you to make you like him more although he doesnt,im sure he got the point that you liked him by all that flirting but i think you should find someone eles.flirt with another guy and it will really help you to get over this guy.u guys just wont work out,admiration has to come from both sides or eles itll be very painful.you can change the way you feel for him,like you can like him like a freind or take him as a younger bro or something,cuz guys dont always tend to find a girl thats older than them.get over him by hanging out with your freinds more and different guys cuz liking him obviously wont get you noowhere....what if you tell him you like him and he says he likes you as a freind??ull be devastated!so 4get it.
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