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Whats with him?
me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!
PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:(
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Don't even put up with that. He doesn't know what he wants & just goes back to you because he knows you'll never stand up to him. Show him you're better than that & avoid him all together. No one deserves someone who treats their girlfriend like that.
& being single can be fun if you let it be. Don't ever think you need to depend on a guy to make you a happy person. You're better off finding someone who respects you & doesn't use you because you are there.
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Oh my gosh no offense but what an asshole!! If he went ahead and started going out with another girl and his reasoning was "because she's hotter" then FUCK HIM. You can do alot better and there's definitely someone out there who will love you and take better care of you.
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You don't deserve a guy like that. You want someone who respects you and would do anything for you, not someone who dumps you with an "Oh well" and makes a move on you right after. This type of guy will probably come crawling back to you right after his new girlfriend breaks up with him, but don't let him sway you with his sob story. I would never let a guy back into my life that cheated on me 3 times and is so disrespectful of my feelings.
Forget about him and move on. Find a guy that would never cheat and cares about you. And never think about this jerk again.
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you shouldnt have said that you guys are going out if you know he been cheatin on you,anywayz thats not important now.....hes playing with you and doesnt like you or eles why would he come telling you he has a girlfreind??he only hangs out with you because he likes the attention from all sides and is arrogant.you should call him up and say...you know what?im dumping you....as mean as it is...he didnt give a damn about hurting your feelings when he said he has a girlfreind so why should you.forget about him because even if he DOES have a new girlfreind hes never going to succed in a realationship cuz hell be like im sorry i found a hotter girl,you cant trust this guy he is totally unpredictable.you need to find a guy that treats you the way you desserve to be treated and dont worry about getting over him,time heals everything
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For one, this guy definently does not deserve you. In my opinion, being single is better than having a boyfriend that cheats on you and says hurtful things.And two, him kissing you after saying he had a new girlfriend is just plain taking advantage of you. Don't stand for that, and move on. Trust me, you don't need someone like that. No girl does.
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find someone who respects you, and wont cheat. If your gonna keep with the other guy, he'll just cheat on you again. What you need is a true boyfriend. And that guy was WAY lame to say O well shes hotter" that's really mean. and then 5 min later tries 2 kiss u!!! I think you can do better. any guy who doesnt respect you, is not worthy 2 be your boyfriend.
~lucky
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Ok, first of all, you are being WAY too easy on him. I know where you are coming from. I have never had a boyfriend that hasnt cheated on me. I would say to never come back to him. Move on to other people. Its ok to be sad about it. I would know. But the way this guy sounds, he will more than likley come back to you. So when he does, just be like, yes. Then about an hour later, say, Uh, yeah I met someone hotter. If you dont want to go for revenge, just say something like, I dont like the way you treated me, I trusted you and you cheat. It dosent sound like a good boyfriend to me. And if he tried to kiss you, then he is just stupid for thinking that you would do that kind of thing. Espically after you all broke up. Hope I have helped. :]
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Ditch the bitch, or rather , the bastard. The trick to dealing with this type of people is to give him the coldest shoulder ever. If he looks for you again, slam the door on his face. Show him you can live without him. Ignore any calls from him and dun see him again.
Hang out with other guys and let him come running to you for forgiveness. But DON'T forgive him unless you really really know that he's a changed man. And even so, remain as good friends and nothing more with him. Let him come begging after you and even if he does that, ignore him. I know it sounds mean but he deserves this kind of treatment.
Don't ever date him again even if he says how much he has changed. Because a leopard never changes its spots.
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hello,
Well honestly i think you need to tell him how your feeling. Communication is key to a good healthy relationship. You also should make sure your next boyfriend respects you cheating on you 3 times shows he doesn't respect you, every woman should be respected by her man. You should find some new, i know it's hard when you love someone so much. It may even be healthy to take a break from a long relationship to just explore your options. You have so much more of your life ahead of you and there are so many hot and respectful guys out there. GO GET UM TIGER.
love,
brittni
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you've gotta find someone who respects you, because thats what you deserve. don't let him think he can get away with using you. i'd say to just try to avoid seeing or talking to him as much as you can. I mean, he's cheated on you 3 times, how can you trust someone like that?
Try and make some more guy friends who aren't as big of jerks. If you go looking for love, you'll have a hard time finding it, it just has to come naturally, and eventually you won't be single, and you'll be with someone who loves you for you and won't cheat on you.
hope everything works out =]
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