ok.. like.. i get really hyper. & like yesterday, i was at the carnival, & i was like idno, fulling around. & like, my one friend is so quiet, & shy. & im more outgoing & everything. soo, should i change? & be more like her? or should i stay the way i am? i dont want to like annoy someone. & how can i stop acting so hyper sometimes?
katie_knows_all481 answered Saturday July 22 2006, 10:23 am: Keep being yourself!!! Encourage your friend to be less shy, but don't force her. You should try relaxing a little when you are hyper.I know, its hard! Just when you feel a rush coming on, take a deep breath and try and control it. Of course, it is ok to be hyper in moderation.
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summerGIRL_xo answered Saturday July 22 2006, 1:21 am: personally, i think you should just be yourself. if your hyper and stuff, that's you. don't change and become more quiet and shy like your friend - stay just the way you are. i don't think this would annoy her, unless she's jealous that she can't be more outgoing like you & make more friends. if you're REALLY hyper and you wanna calm down a little, try exercizing or dancing or something to get out your energy. also, lay back on the sugar & caffiene, etc. [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
queenhearts answered Friday July 21 2006, 4:01 pm: Just be yourself.
That's all that matters.
I bet your friend enjoys your outgoing and loud self though.
crazyme6 answered Friday July 21 2006, 1:50 pm: no you should never change in order to be like someone else! being outgoing and hyper is actually a good thing, because youre enjoying life and having fun without holding back! i think you should stay the way you are because being fun is a desirable quality.i doubt you'll annoy people unless you are purposely doing something to others so dont worry about that.! if you feel like youre being TOO hyper, just try to contain it inside and focus on talking to your friend.maybe your friend will be influenced by you and wont be so shy anymore and thats a really good thing!! [ crazyme6's advice column | Ask crazyme6 A Question ]
dancinangel1029 answered Friday July 21 2006, 1:21 pm: you shouldnt change because everyone is different and if they think your annoying then thats there problem. its hard to really tell u how to not be so hyper because thats just how u are. [ dancinangel1029's advice column | Ask dancinangel1029 A Question ]
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