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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :(
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well ask your self who are the better friends that will be there for you!!
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i would have stuck with my old friends. would you rather have a billion "friends" or a few close friends that you can count on for anything...im not saying ditch your new friends. but you should spend more time with the friends that have been in your life forever not with the ones who have been in it fo rlike 5 munths. try to combind the 2 groups and hang out together that way your spending times with both groups of friends at the same time and no one feels left out
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As long as you aren't ignoring them or blowing you off, you can't really do anything. You can't please everyone. Just make sure you make enough time with them & not changing the person you are. & if that still bothers them, then you might want to talk to them about what the real problem is.
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They probably think since you are popular that you are to good for them.Simple thing really but easier said than done...just apologize to them and say just because I am popular doesn't mean I forgot about you...I am sorry I haven't been spending enough time with you guys and so sorry if I made you guys feel left out.And also ask them why else they might be getting pissed at you.I simply don't know what else to right but you don't want to lose old friendships because truly those are the people that have know you the most and the longest and will stick to you till the end if you just treat them the way you want to be treated...hope this helps.
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You could have a sleepover with all of your old friends.
Apologize to each of them and see what they have to say to you.
If they all accept your apology, then invite your new friends over too.
Once they get there, try and get them to spend a lot of time with your old friends.
BUT, make sure NOT to forget about your old friends once your new friends get there!
Hopefully, they can all start being friends and they will stop getting mad at you all the time.
Good luck!
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mabey they feel left out that youre hanging out with your new freinds more.they feel that now that your popular you dont have time for the "old" freinds.i think you should talk to your freinds and listen to what they have to say and how they feel.and promise them that youll hang out with them again,because your probably ditching them with out even noticing it.make some time to hang out with them too.go out with them,call them just like your new freinds...the more freinds the better!
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This is like my problem, but i figured out a way to solve it. Just introduce your new friend's to your other friends and maybe you'll have a bigger group. But, just make sure that you hang out with both of them like pretty often. That's the mistake i make was hanging out too much with my new friends then all of my other friends got pissed and we all ended up being friends in the end...soo i think that you should just introduce each of your new friends to your other ones and it'll all be okay.
Thanks,
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Set some time for your old friends, so they'll fell like you havent desserted them. It's okay to have new friends, but make sure that you spend time with both because then they'll get mad at you.
~Lucky
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i've had that problem before, except i was the one on the other side. it feels terrible because you've been there for someone as long as you can remember and then you feel like you haven't been a good enough friend for them. i can understand that you want to have lots of friends and have fun. but, not all people are alike. you know you're old friends like the palm of your hand, i'm guessing, so i suggest that you keep you're old friends updated with you're life and make sure to talk to them and hang out with them and make them feel like they are still special to you even though now you have other friends also
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Well im life you make friends and you loose them. You have to choose. Or why cant you just be friends with both of them. Your new friends and old friends. Maybe have them meet so then all of you can be friends.
Jess
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nothing... things change... people change... life goes on... and there is no such thing as a friend.
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i think you should have your old friends meet your new friends so ypu can all get along and no one will get mad at you anymore
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