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Gender: Female
Location: Vermont
Occupation: none
Age: 15
Member Since: July 22, 2006
Answers: 7
Last Update: July 23, 2006
Visitors: 1143
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how do i get them to notice me?! i might not be the prettiest girl but i know im not ugly and i havent had a bf yet. not even a first kiss. im 13/f and idk how i can get noticed. (link)
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Just be your self...(im sure you herd that one be4)...You should pick one guy in general you want to notice you and find out more about him...if the guy likes baseball...next time you see him, walk by talking about something interesting to him...then maybe ask him to hangout some time to talk more about it
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SORRY ITS LONG i think im becoming anorexic because i never eat and well i eat but not alot.Yesterday i tryed to throwup on purpous but i couldt.Im scared for myself also iv been getting depressed latly and thinking about cutting i used to cut but i stoped because one of my ex friends told the school. I would never kill myself because i dont want to go to hell. After i cut myself i always feel so bad but i think i just feel that way because i dont want to get caught again.Boys and girls are always saying how hott i am but i dont think i am.I think im fat and ugly and i hate myself.It started around the time i started going out with my boyfriend.I cant brakeup with him because hes suacidel and i like him a real lot also he says i love you to me and i need to hear it.I need help! i need someone to talk to.DONT say my mom and dad because my mom has a deadly sickness and they have unuff stress and i dont realy trust any of my friends because i dont want them to tell like befor.Ohh ya i love to get hurt because i love the Sympathy and so i make when ever has happened worce. THANXS (link)
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i dont think its right for you to hurt yourself on purpose. if people think your hot, then you must believe so. im saying you have to walk around thinking your all that. you might just be insecur about your self...I cant say i have cut my self, or tried to starve my self b/c i havent...but i can say i have been insecur about my self like you. i think im ugly and fat somtimes, but i guess i just try to help my self in heathy ways...like going on a diet...a heathy one, and exersizing regularly...just be safe
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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :( (link)
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i would have stuck with my old friends. would you rather have a billion "friends" or a few close friends that you can count on for anything...im not saying ditch your new friends. but you should spend more time with the friends that have been in your life forever not with the ones who have been in it fo rlike 5 munths. try to combind the 2 groups and hang out together that way your spending times with both groups of friends at the same time and no one feels left out
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This is going to be long.
My best guy friend, Sam, I don't know what is going on with him! He would always flirt with me and talk to me. I heard him say that I was hot to one of his friends at the beginning of the year if that matters.
I also heard his friends tryings to guess who he was going to ask out and they kept saying my name and he didn't respond. All he did was stare at me and that day in my last class. right before the bell rang, his friend was like, "Do you like Sam?" and I was like, "Ummmm...No. Why?" and hes like, "Oh, just wondering." and he went out the door.
on my birthday I had invited sam to my party, which was that weekend. I took 10 of my best friends to a movie. While we were in line waiting for the popcorn, he asked if i was going to the dance on tuesday and I said, "Oh. Probably." he smiled and looked at his friend and the exchanged some weird look and then his friend said, "sam doesnt have anyone to go with." and they both stared at me expecting me to say something but I just said, "oh." and we went to go sit down.
the week of the dance, he asked my best friend, Sarah, out. She kept saying, "he barely even talks to me!" but he would only talk to her or hug her when I was around.
during the last class of the day, his best friend asked me again, "would you ever go out with sam?" and I said, "uhhhhhhh i dont know! why do you keep asking me that?!" and he was like, "Dunno..HE MIGHT LIKE YOU!" and I gave him a weird look and he said, "IM JOKING! IM JOKING!" but he didnt sound like it.
But, he broke up with sarah and started going out with taylor again and all he did was ignore me and he wasn't nice to me at all unless she wasn't anywhere close to us. I talked to jake and he said that sam answers when he calls but I've tried to call him many times over the summer but he never answers the phone.
So, I don't understand what he's doing! Does he like me or not?! (link)
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I think he does like you, and when you gave him the impresion you wernt interested he might have felt embarresed and thought maybe you cant be friends like you used to be. or he could just be acting imature b/c you didnt like him and now hes just being a jerk...and if thats the case send it back. be the same way back to him so he knows how it feels. but let him know you still want to be friends.
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I am 15 years old and so is my boyfriend. There is this girl that he talks to that has been his friend for years. They both say that they are brother and sister type friends. I believe them but I have really big jealousy issues. This girl is skinnier than I, and prettier. I recently got into a fight with my boyfriend because when he went to his friends house she showed up. I ignored his calls and everything. Well, this girl Instant Messaged me asking me if he could go to San Francisco with her tomorrow to hang out with her and her mother because it is her birthday and she has no one else to go with and doesn't want to go alone. I want to feel sad and just cry thinking about. But they're just friends, right? Should I just let him go and face my jealousy and see if it helps me get over it? Or should I put my foot down and object of the whole thing? (link)
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I used to have the same problem. He was all LYLAS to the other girl, and i thought shes prittier then me, etc. but then i thought if that were really true then he would be with her...not me...I thought about putting my foot down to but then he would feel like he has no freedome and that your suficating him. I think you should just face your jelousy. and if anything happeneds between the girl and him then hes not the right guy for you. but you should let him know you trust him and let him go with her.
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Ok, I'm 14/f and I'm going out with this wonderful boy. It's already been a week and we've been hanging out like every day. I want to kiss him soooooo bad, but I'm afraid because this is my first kiss. Would he find it sexy/a turn on if i asked him to teach me how to kiss? Thanks! (link)
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If you have friends that have already kissed someone then go to them first and ask them about it. If that doesnt work, it cant hurt to be honest. Just tell the guy you really like him and you want to kiss him but your afaid you might do it wrong and seemed embaressed. Im sure the guy will think its cute that you wanted to kiss him and you were woried about it being PERFECT
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This is going to sound really daft to most people so I apologise but I don't know how to properly apply eyeliner, so I was hoping someone might be good enough as to explain it to me?
I also need to know whether liquid or pencil eyeliner is better and what colours are best for me if I have brown hair and wide brown eyes?
Thank you to anyone who helps! (link)
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I use the pencil eyeliner...i find that the liquid ones smudge easier. I put eyeliner on my bottem lid and then close my eye and aplya thin line on the eye lid...(near your eye lashes)...i think it looks really god, and i have brown hair and wide brown eyes and it looks good on my so why not you
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